When I have hard weeks such as this, I am overcome with apathy. I dread everything. Even a shower and shave becomes an ordeal to overcome and accomplish. I mainly want to just stay in the bed and rest, but then I get restless doing that as well and crawl back out of it.
This morning I awoke at my usual time of 7 AM and stumbled into the kitchen. I opened the refrigerator door and just stood there for a few moments trying to decide between a glass of milk and a glass of orange juice. I didn’t feel like doing anything such as cooking but managed to toast some raisin bread and spread that with peanut butter. The warm bread made the peanut butter warm and gooey. It tasted delicious with that glass of cold milk.
I then dragged myself into the shower, turned on the hot water, and sat upon the toilet procrastinating crawling in as the whole bathroom became filled with steam. I finally shed my clothes and stood under the hot water bathing myself and then shaving. I dried off, blow dried my hair, and put on some clean clothes. I then sat down in my lazy boy lounge chair and read a book until 9 AM. It was time for my next dreaded task; getting my bi-weekly injection.
I drove down to the doctor’s office and it was uncharacteristically deserted. I was the only one there and they had that damned television playing at a loud volume. That silly Maury Povich show was on showcasing dysfunctional thirty year old women dating teenagers. When the receptionist wasn’t paying attention, I snuck over and turned down the volume to a more comfortable level. I would have turned the damn thing off, but it would have drawn too much attention from the staff.
Finally, they called me back for my shot. It took Andrea, the nurse, just a matter of minutes to administer it and it was mostly a pain free experience. I thanked her for her skill and bid her a good weekend. I then drove home. Now, what to do with the rest of the day is the big question. I have to work a few hours this afternoon, but other than that have hours upon hours to fill. I think I shall just go sit and read and see where that leads me.
Friday, September 23, 2005
Wednesday, September 21, 2005
Winter is Around the Corner
I sit with a feeling of sadness tonight as I write this. The signs of another approaching winter are all too clear. It is now getting dark at 8 PM instead of 9 PM. The days are growing shorter. I can see the last vestiges of the sun as I look out my window at what used to be an early hour filled with the orange skies of sunset.
Also, that specific call of a certain species of cricket sings beyond my open windows. It makes me reflect upon a time, long ago, during my first stint of college. I was sitting out on my back porch playing my guitar when I first noticed those cricket calls in the fall; an omen for those dank, cold winter months ahead.
Soon, my open windows will be shut for what will seem like an eternity as winter passes. Those cold nights with a brisk wind blowing will greet me. I will shudder when I think back upon those lazy summer days full of warmth and skies filled with puffy cumulus clouds. I will wrap up in my warm comforters upon my bed to be greeted by silence. No crickets; no katydids; just the sound of that cold wind whistling in the slats of my windows. I shall turn off my bedside lamp and go to sleep with that lonesome and wistful feeling that winter brings upon me.
Also, that specific call of a certain species of cricket sings beyond my open windows. It makes me reflect upon a time, long ago, during my first stint of college. I was sitting out on my back porch playing my guitar when I first noticed those cricket calls in the fall; an omen for those dank, cold winter months ahead.
Soon, my open windows will be shut for what will seem like an eternity as winter passes. Those cold nights with a brisk wind blowing will greet me. I will shudder when I think back upon those lazy summer days full of warmth and skies filled with puffy cumulus clouds. I will wrap up in my warm comforters upon my bed to be greeted by silence. No crickets; no katydids; just the sound of that cold wind whistling in the slats of my windows. I shall turn off my bedside lamp and go to sleep with that lonesome and wistful feeling that winter brings upon me.
Tuesday, September 20, 2005
Moon Shine
I had turned off all my lights in preparation for bed. I walked back into my den for one last pipe. It was illuminated by the ethereal light of the moon shining through my closed Venetian blinds. It was a moment in time and distinctly caught my attention. I stood there noticing the dark shadows juxtaposed amongst the bright light. I opened my blinds slightly to let the light come flooding in. I looked out to see a full moon greeting me.
Oh, how I longed for a full moon during my homeless days. That light during those cold, dark nights was comforting. It made me feel not so alone. I had a companion who traveled the vastness of space above me.
This moment tonight made me reflect on those cold, early mornings where the frost covered the ground. The only light to illuminate my way was the moon and a thousand stars. I remember looking up into the sky as my breath in the cold air obscured my view. Moon shine; you still bring me comfort.
Oh, how I longed for a full moon during my homeless days. That light during those cold, dark nights was comforting. It made me feel not so alone. I had a companion who traveled the vastness of space above me.
This moment tonight made me reflect on those cold, early mornings where the frost covered the ground. The only light to illuminate my way was the moon and a thousand stars. I remember looking up into the sky as my breath in the cold air obscured my view. Moon shine; you still bring me comfort.
No Games Today
The phone calls started this afternoon. I guess my little talk with Uncle Bob during our last encounter didn’t register or something. We did the little phone tag game twice. I then answered the phone on the third barrage of rings and diffused the situation. I haven’t felt well lately and didn’t feel like playing any stupid games today.
“Andrew, I got a new TV and DVD player and I need you to come hook them up,” Bob said on the other end in his usual country twang voice.
“Let me put on a shirt and I will be right over,” I replied.
I drove the two blocks to his house and pulled up out front. The goats in his back yard were making a terrible amount of racket as I walked to the front door. I rang the door bell and he shuffled to open it in his 84 year old gait.
“Come on in! Come on in!” Bob said excitedly as he opened the door.
Bob was genuinely glad to see me.
We walked into the den and I got busy hooking up his new television to the DVD player. Uncle Bob had driven down to Best Buy to purchase these items. They had sold him those ridiculously expensive gold-plated connection cables and many cables he did not need. I started to tell him that he had wasted his money, but knew it would have been more trouble that it was worth. Those sales persons are on commission and took advantage of an elderly customer who was clueless about such things.
It took me almost an hour to explain to Uncle Bob how to use the remote controls to get a DVD to play. He kept asking me to show him how to do it one more time.
“Now, what in high hell does that button do again?” Bob would ask looking confused.
“Bob, you need to set the television to video-1 to play a DVD,” I would reply.
“Well, goddamn, ain’t there an easier way to watch the damn things?” Bob would ask.
A few times, I had to stifle a smile. I doubt he will ever be able to watch a DVD without me coming over and starting it for him.
“Just sit down awhile and talk to me,” Bob said. “I feel like the walls of this here house are closing in on me since Jessie (his wife) died.”
We sat and talked for a long time. Uncle Bob is one of those people you have a one-way conversation with. Basically, I just sat and listened to him ramble on. He was lonely.
Bob is also the most gaseous senior citizen you have ever met. He let quite a few rip during our conversation and his customary “Excuse me” would be his reply. When I was child, Bob would have thrilled my soul. Unfortunately, he didn’t marry Aunt Jessie until later in life so I missed out a flatulent Uncle Bob in my youth. My mother calls him country and uncouth.
I had left a pot of spaghetti sauce cooking on the stove and finally had to bid Uncle Bob farewell. I did have to walk out into the back yard to look at the goats before I left due to Uncle Bob’s insistence. I then drove home and got my spaghetti noodles boiling for supper. Just another day in the life of Andrew.
“Andrew, I got a new TV and DVD player and I need you to come hook them up,” Bob said on the other end in his usual country twang voice.
“Let me put on a shirt and I will be right over,” I replied.
I drove the two blocks to his house and pulled up out front. The goats in his back yard were making a terrible amount of racket as I walked to the front door. I rang the door bell and he shuffled to open it in his 84 year old gait.
“Come on in! Come on in!” Bob said excitedly as he opened the door.
Bob was genuinely glad to see me.
We walked into the den and I got busy hooking up his new television to the DVD player. Uncle Bob had driven down to Best Buy to purchase these items. They had sold him those ridiculously expensive gold-plated connection cables and many cables he did not need. I started to tell him that he had wasted his money, but knew it would have been more trouble that it was worth. Those sales persons are on commission and took advantage of an elderly customer who was clueless about such things.
It took me almost an hour to explain to Uncle Bob how to use the remote controls to get a DVD to play. He kept asking me to show him how to do it one more time.
“Now, what in high hell does that button do again?” Bob would ask looking confused.
“Bob, you need to set the television to video-1 to play a DVD,” I would reply.
“Well, goddamn, ain’t there an easier way to watch the damn things?” Bob would ask.
A few times, I had to stifle a smile. I doubt he will ever be able to watch a DVD without me coming over and starting it for him.
“Just sit down awhile and talk to me,” Bob said. “I feel like the walls of this here house are closing in on me since Jessie (his wife) died.”
We sat and talked for a long time. Uncle Bob is one of those people you have a one-way conversation with. Basically, I just sat and listened to him ramble on. He was lonely.
Bob is also the most gaseous senior citizen you have ever met. He let quite a few rip during our conversation and his customary “Excuse me” would be his reply. When I was child, Bob would have thrilled my soul. Unfortunately, he didn’t marry Aunt Jessie until later in life so I missed out a flatulent Uncle Bob in my youth. My mother calls him country and uncouth.
I had left a pot of spaghetti sauce cooking on the stove and finally had to bid Uncle Bob farewell. I did have to walk out into the back yard to look at the goats before I left due to Uncle Bob’s insistence. I then drove home and got my spaghetti noodles boiling for supper. Just another day in the life of Andrew.
Monday, September 19, 2005
Anxious Days and Sleepless Nights
I hate to use the blog to whine. I will just say that I am dealing with a lot of anxiety at the moment and don’t feel well. I didn’t get to sleep until 4 am this morning due to anxiety. This too shall pass as it always does. I keep hearing what sounds like a car door shutting outside in the driveway and it makes me literally jump in my chair or in the bed. I go look out the window and the drive way is empty. The last thing I want right now is social contact and visitors. It is a disconcerting feeling and just part of my illness. Now, would be a good time for me to head out on an extended hiking or camping trip to clear my mind, but the responsibilities of conventional life beckon and call.
To balance this post, here are some positive things going on:
1) I managed to find lots of good books on Native Americans in the Southeast Saturday at the library. I have been spending much of my time reading. This subject fascinates me.
2) I have been working on a little novella of sorts about life in the south during the great depression. It is in the outline and planning stage and will be posted on my Possum in the Pot blog. It is drawing from many of the stories I heard my Grandmother and her sisters tell me about life growing up in the Great Depression. They were very poor materially, but the richest people I have ever known when it comes to the less tangible wealth of happiness and harmony.
3) They started work again on my new/old house. This has been a long and drawn out affair, but the tentative deadline for me moving in is before Christmas. My funds are limited and I have been partially relying upon the labor and charity of my father and Charlie to complete this project. I will try to get some pictures up for those of you that are interested in seeing it.
4) I found a box full of unassembled model railroad kits (mainly boxcars) a few days ago in storage under the basement. I thought my ex-wife had kept them, but apparently she had boxed them up and didn’t label the box. I pulled out all my supplies and have been spending quiet evenings assembling the kits and then painting and weathering them with my airbrush. It feels good to be active in my preferred hobby again.
To balance this post, here are some positive things going on:
1) I managed to find lots of good books on Native Americans in the Southeast Saturday at the library. I have been spending much of my time reading. This subject fascinates me.
2) I have been working on a little novella of sorts about life in the south during the great depression. It is in the outline and planning stage and will be posted on my Possum in the Pot blog. It is drawing from many of the stories I heard my Grandmother and her sisters tell me about life growing up in the Great Depression. They were very poor materially, but the richest people I have ever known when it comes to the less tangible wealth of happiness and harmony.
3) They started work again on my new/old house. This has been a long and drawn out affair, but the tentative deadline for me moving in is before Christmas. My funds are limited and I have been partially relying upon the labor and charity of my father and Charlie to complete this project. I will try to get some pictures up for those of you that are interested in seeing it.
4) I found a box full of unassembled model railroad kits (mainly boxcars) a few days ago in storage under the basement. I thought my ex-wife had kept them, but apparently she had boxed them up and didn’t label the box. I pulled out all my supplies and have been spending quiet evenings assembling the kits and then painting and weathering them with my airbrush. It feels good to be active in my preferred hobby again.
Sunday, September 18, 2005
The Crossroads
The past few days I have been standing at a crossroad metaphorically. To my left, the horizon down the road is filled with vicious black storm clouds and flashes of lightning. To my right, the horizon is filled with beautiful clouds and sunny blue skies.
I know the road to take. My rational mind is fully aware of the consequences of walking down that dark road filled with rain, lightning, and danger. The addictive part of my personality is not so rational though.
I don’t know if it is because football season has started or if it is just a phase, but I have been obsessing over having a few beers lately. I can’t have just a “few” beers though. I drink one or two and the number soon grows to eighteen or twenty. I will find myself passed out in the bed having pissed all over myself most likely.
They don’t sell alcohol here on Sundays (Bible belt) so I would have to drive an hour to another town that has a college to buy it. I actually got in the car and sat for a few moments contemplating starting the journey. I then drove down to the Piggly Wiggly and spent the rest of my cash on groceries so I wouldn’t be tempted for the rest of the day. At least I have plenty of good food to eat now. I bought lots of comfort foods that bring me solace.
It is times like these I must reflect on my homeless days. I must admit the sad fact that I was a mentally ill, homeless alcoholic. I would go for days without eating as alcohol took precedence. I would sit out in the freezing cold drinking one tepid beer after another. I would pass out in my sleeping bag to awake in the middle of night feeling cold, scared, hung over, and terrible. I don’t want to re-live that nightmare. I don’t want to walk down that dark road filled with pain and anguish.
Just by writing this, I started to walk down that sunny path filled with bright blue skies and a promising future.
I know the road to take. My rational mind is fully aware of the consequences of walking down that dark road filled with rain, lightning, and danger. The addictive part of my personality is not so rational though.
I don’t know if it is because football season has started or if it is just a phase, but I have been obsessing over having a few beers lately. I can’t have just a “few” beers though. I drink one or two and the number soon grows to eighteen or twenty. I will find myself passed out in the bed having pissed all over myself most likely.
They don’t sell alcohol here on Sundays (Bible belt) so I would have to drive an hour to another town that has a college to buy it. I actually got in the car and sat for a few moments contemplating starting the journey. I then drove down to the Piggly Wiggly and spent the rest of my cash on groceries so I wouldn’t be tempted for the rest of the day. At least I have plenty of good food to eat now. I bought lots of comfort foods that bring me solace.
It is times like these I must reflect on my homeless days. I must admit the sad fact that I was a mentally ill, homeless alcoholic. I would go for days without eating as alcohol took precedence. I would sit out in the freezing cold drinking one tepid beer after another. I would pass out in my sleeping bag to awake in the middle of night feeling cold, scared, hung over, and terrible. I don’t want to re-live that nightmare. I don’t want to walk down that dark road filled with pain and anguish.
Just by writing this, I started to walk down that sunny path filled with bright blue skies and a promising future.
Saturday, September 17, 2005
Wind through My Windows
A soft wind is blowing through my windows occasionally, making my Venetian blinds flutter and “sing”. The neighbor’s kids are out in their backyard jumping on their trampoline. Their squeals of joy and playful banter are music to my ears. The sky is overcast and the air is cool. My pipe is still warm from indulging in that pleasant hobby. Song birds chirp and sing as they call out to their brethren. A mug of hot tea adorns the desktop by my computer. All of this makes for a pleasant and peaceful Saturday afternoon. I feel as if I am in a concert hall listening to and experiencing the finest of performances. I now must adjourn to act two of this performance of life.
I am about to set out on a trip of camping tonight. The allure of the countryside and the woods is calling me. I can’t wait to pitch my tent, build a fire, and watch the sunset on the horizon. I long for the mournful night time calls of whip-o-wills. I yearn for the smells of the forest and a country sky filled with millions of stars not spoiled by the light pollution of a city.
Now, I must follow my bliss. Good afternoon or night, and may these same joys find you on the road of life.
I am about to set out on a trip of camping tonight. The allure of the countryside and the woods is calling me. I can’t wait to pitch my tent, build a fire, and watch the sunset on the horizon. I long for the mournful night time calls of whip-o-wills. I yearn for the smells of the forest and a country sky filled with millions of stars not spoiled by the light pollution of a city.
Now, I must follow my bliss. Good afternoon or night, and may these same joys find you on the road of life.
Friday, September 16, 2005
A New View on Life
Within an hour, I go to pick up my new contacts. I even got the day off for this momentous occasion. I am keeping my fingers crossed that this pair will fit properly. I am tired of not being able to see well. Hopefully, soon, I will get a new view on life. The only down side is that I will see clearly enough to write that check to pay for it.
Not much has happened today. I do want to say I appreciated all the comments on yesterday’s post. I kind of hesitantly clicked on my comments this morning not knowing what I would find. Everything written was supportive and made me feel better.
No Soup for You!’s comment hit the nail on the head. I did feel violated by what happened the other night. I struggled with addiction for years. For a split second there I even entertained the thought of smoking marijuana and it scared the hell out of me. I have an affinity for mood altering substances and have to abstain completely and not be around them. One wrong choice when confronted with a situation such as the other night could have very well changed the course of my future life. It was kind of a macabre dance with the devil that night. I don’t want to be in the ballroom let alone dancing.
Not much has happened today. I do want to say I appreciated all the comments on yesterday’s post. I kind of hesitantly clicked on my comments this morning not knowing what I would find. Everything written was supportive and made me feel better.
No Soup for You!’s comment hit the nail on the head. I did feel violated by what happened the other night. I struggled with addiction for years. For a split second there I even entertained the thought of smoking marijuana and it scared the hell out of me. I have an affinity for mood altering substances and have to abstain completely and not be around them. One wrong choice when confronted with a situation such as the other night could have very well changed the course of my future life. It was kind of a macabre dance with the devil that night. I don’t want to be in the ballroom let alone dancing.
Thursday, September 15, 2005
The Funks
I got caught in a compromising and distressful situation last night and it left me depressed all day, today. I almost didn’t write. It took the wind out of my sails. I have been figuratively kicking my self in the ass all day for being stupid. I should know better. I consider myself pretty “street-wise” and “street-smart”. Last night, I dropped the ball.
Chad had called and left a message on my answering machine that he had a computer monitor he wanted to sell for $25 dollars. (This should have been my first and final warning to stay away.) He said he had “acquired” it from an older lady he did a job for. He said he was out of money and wouldn’t get his food stamps until next Monday and was hungry. I drove over to look at it. I thought I would be helping him out by buying it.
“What’s up J-Man!” He said enthusiastically as he opened his door. “You are a hard man to get in touch with.”
He has left multiple messages on my answering machine all week. I have ignored them until the one about the monitor. We went back to his bedroom to look at the monitor. The thing must have been over ten years old and was useless to me.
“Chad, that thing isn’t worth a dollar,” I replied.
“It ain’t no big thang, man,” He said as we walked back to his den. “Come on, have a seat, and let’s talk about old times.”
I sat down in a chair as his little dog, Scrap, jumped up into my lap. We talked about high school and the time we used to be roommates in the early nineties. We kept getting interrupted by strange people knocking at the door. Chad would sheepishly go outside, shut the door for a few minutes, and then walk back in. This happened multiple times during our conversation.
“What’s going on, man?” I asked.
“What do you mean?” Chad replied.
“What’s the deal with all these people coming around for a few moments?” I asked.
I already knew the answer.
“Look, I didn’t want to tell you, but I need the money,” Chad said. “I am selling xanax (a sedative) for a dollar a pill. You want some?”
My spidey sense had been tingling for some time and this put me on full alert. Chad then pulled out a blunt (a cigar with the tobacco taken out and replaced with marijuana) and lit it up, toke a few puffs, and then handed it towards me.
“No thanks, man,” I said. “I don’t smoke weed.”
“You don’t think you could get some (xanax) from your father’s pharmacy, do you?” Chad asked. “I will cut you some of the profits.”
By this time, I was in panic mode. I don’t like being around crazy shit like this. Chad started to talk some pretty wild stuff as he got stoned. I finally just leapt up out of the chair, burst out the door, and drove home. I was so glad when I pulled up into my driveway and got out of that situation. I was finally safe and at home. I haven’t been that uncomfortable in a long time.
The sad thing is that Chad used to be such a prude. When we lived together, he would get mad at me when I brought home a six pack of beer. He didn’t smoke, drink, or do anything that was considered a vice. He also used to be so well spoken and smart, and know he talks and acts like dumb, redneck, white trash. My, do people change. That will be the last time I have any dealings with the guy for sure.
Chad had called and left a message on my answering machine that he had a computer monitor he wanted to sell for $25 dollars. (This should have been my first and final warning to stay away.) He said he had “acquired” it from an older lady he did a job for. He said he was out of money and wouldn’t get his food stamps until next Monday and was hungry. I drove over to look at it. I thought I would be helping him out by buying it.
“What’s up J-Man!” He said enthusiastically as he opened his door. “You are a hard man to get in touch with.”
He has left multiple messages on my answering machine all week. I have ignored them until the one about the monitor. We went back to his bedroom to look at the monitor. The thing must have been over ten years old and was useless to me.
“Chad, that thing isn’t worth a dollar,” I replied.
“It ain’t no big thang, man,” He said as we walked back to his den. “Come on, have a seat, and let’s talk about old times.”
I sat down in a chair as his little dog, Scrap, jumped up into my lap. We talked about high school and the time we used to be roommates in the early nineties. We kept getting interrupted by strange people knocking at the door. Chad would sheepishly go outside, shut the door for a few minutes, and then walk back in. This happened multiple times during our conversation.
“What’s going on, man?” I asked.
“What do you mean?” Chad replied.
“What’s the deal with all these people coming around for a few moments?” I asked.
I already knew the answer.
“Look, I didn’t want to tell you, but I need the money,” Chad said. “I am selling xanax (a sedative) for a dollar a pill. You want some?”
My spidey sense had been tingling for some time and this put me on full alert. Chad then pulled out a blunt (a cigar with the tobacco taken out and replaced with marijuana) and lit it up, toke a few puffs, and then handed it towards me.
“No thanks, man,” I said. “I don’t smoke weed.”
“You don’t think you could get some (xanax) from your father’s pharmacy, do you?” Chad asked. “I will cut you some of the profits.”
By this time, I was in panic mode. I don’t like being around crazy shit like this. Chad started to talk some pretty wild stuff as he got stoned. I finally just leapt up out of the chair, burst out the door, and drove home. I was so glad when I pulled up into my driveway and got out of that situation. I was finally safe and at home. I haven’t been that uncomfortable in a long time.
The sad thing is that Chad used to be such a prude. When we lived together, he would get mad at me when I brought home a six pack of beer. He didn’t smoke, drink, or do anything that was considered a vice. He also used to be so well spoken and smart, and know he talks and acts like dumb, redneck, white trash. My, do people change. That will be the last time I have any dealings with the guy for sure.
Wednesday, September 14, 2005
Little Dog, Big Wind
My ex-wife was extremely prudish about things. Our little Boston terrier had a flatulence problem and it embarrassed her. We tried different dog foods to no avail. One night, I and my ex-wife were laying in the bed reading. Otis, our dog, had snuggled under the covers between us. His little problem reared its ugly head. He let loose one of the most nasty and odorous “gifts” he had ever bestowed upon us.
“Jesus, Rachel!” I cried laughing. “You need to go check your drawers. That was nasty.”
“Grumpy,” She said as she blushed and hit me with the book she was reading. “That is not funny. You know that was not me.”
“I don’t think that little dog could have done that,” I replied. “That took a much larger person and it was not me.”
“Well, if I would have done that then I would have blown a hole in my panties,” Rachel said.
We both burst out laughing. I laughed so hard it hurt. Rachel was crying by the time our outburst had started to die down. Otis poked his head out from under the covers looking to see what had caused so much commotion.
“I love it when you can lighten up and laugh,” I said.
Rachel leaned over and kissed me on the lips.
“Don’t you ever blame that dog’s little outbursts on me again,” She said as she smiled and looked at me sternly at the same time.
I rolled over and pulled the covers around me. I went to sleep with a smile on my face. Who knew what fun could come out of little packages such as Otis. I miss that little windy dog.
“Jesus, Rachel!” I cried laughing. “You need to go check your drawers. That was nasty.”
“Grumpy,” She said as she blushed and hit me with the book she was reading. “That is not funny. You know that was not me.”
“I don’t think that little dog could have done that,” I replied. “That took a much larger person and it was not me.”
“Well, if I would have done that then I would have blown a hole in my panties,” Rachel said.
We both burst out laughing. I laughed so hard it hurt. Rachel was crying by the time our outburst had started to die down. Otis poked his head out from under the covers looking to see what had caused so much commotion.
“I love it when you can lighten up and laugh,” I said.
Rachel leaned over and kissed me on the lips.
“Don’t you ever blame that dog’s little outbursts on me again,” She said as she smiled and looked at me sternly at the same time.
I rolled over and pulled the covers around me. I went to sleep with a smile on my face. Who knew what fun could come out of little packages such as Otis. I miss that little windy dog.
Journal Entries from another Life
I started my first blog on December 7th, 2003. At the time, I was homeless and living in a tent on some land my family owned way out in the country. I didn’t get a home until later that February after a desperate call for help to my mother. She moved me into where I live now that same night I called. I will never forget her turning on the furnace and feeling that warm air flowing from the vents. It felt like heaven.
Those few months before I got a home I kept a journal everyday and would write my experiences so I could later transcribe them into blogger when I could get access to my computer. Many of those journal entries were just ideas and never published. Nothing really happened today and I don’t feel like writing much so I decided to share one of my entries that captured what my experience was like. I have done some editing to make it more coherent and readable as I transcribed it.
Cold Comfort
This morning was brutally cold. It was well below freezing when I woke up still wrapped in my sleeping bag. I looked at my thermometer on my backpack and it read 27 degrees. I could see my breath when I poked my head out of my bag. No way in hell was I getting out of my warm sleeping bag for that. I got a book and my flashlight and pulled my head into my sleeping bag and read. I was waiting for the sun to get higher in the sky and to warm the air up some. I had read several chapters when hunger overcame my urge to stay warm. I was also very thirsty.
I have learned to sleep with my clothes on or in the sleeping bag with me. That way they are warm when I get dressed. This is especially important with my shoes. The hardest part of this cold is keeping my feet warm and already warm shoes and socks make a world of difference.
I crawled out of my tent to check on the fire I had prepared the night before. It was covered in a thick frost. I had forgotten to put something over it the night before. I can normally get a fire started with just kindling, wood shavings, and pine straw. This morning I cheated. I tore many pages of paper out of my notebook and crumbled them up. I pushed them under the frost covered wood. After several tries and an almost depleted notebook, I finally got a fire going. I took off my gloves and warmed my hands.
After warming up some, I pulled out and lit my camp stove. I made a pot of coffee and boiled some water for ramen noodles. I am so fucking tired of eating ramen noodles though. The thought of another cup of those things makes my stomach churn. The hot coffee is awesome though on a cold morning. It really warms you up from the inside-out.
I need to head into Waverly today and check my PO Box for mail. I also badly need a shower. I haven’t showered in four days. I will probably ride over to the truck stop and buy a shower, but that is a long, cold ride on my motorcycle. I kept hoping that the weather would warm some thus why I have put off bathing for so long. My hair is so greasy it is driving my crazy. God, I am such a fuckup to be in this mess!
Those few months before I got a home I kept a journal everyday and would write my experiences so I could later transcribe them into blogger when I could get access to my computer. Many of those journal entries were just ideas and never published. Nothing really happened today and I don’t feel like writing much so I decided to share one of my entries that captured what my experience was like. I have done some editing to make it more coherent and readable as I transcribed it.
Cold Comfort
This morning was brutally cold. It was well below freezing when I woke up still wrapped in my sleeping bag. I looked at my thermometer on my backpack and it read 27 degrees. I could see my breath when I poked my head out of my bag. No way in hell was I getting out of my warm sleeping bag for that. I got a book and my flashlight and pulled my head into my sleeping bag and read. I was waiting for the sun to get higher in the sky and to warm the air up some. I had read several chapters when hunger overcame my urge to stay warm. I was also very thirsty.
I have learned to sleep with my clothes on or in the sleeping bag with me. That way they are warm when I get dressed. This is especially important with my shoes. The hardest part of this cold is keeping my feet warm and already warm shoes and socks make a world of difference.
I crawled out of my tent to check on the fire I had prepared the night before. It was covered in a thick frost. I had forgotten to put something over it the night before. I can normally get a fire started with just kindling, wood shavings, and pine straw. This morning I cheated. I tore many pages of paper out of my notebook and crumbled them up. I pushed them under the frost covered wood. After several tries and an almost depleted notebook, I finally got a fire going. I took off my gloves and warmed my hands.
After warming up some, I pulled out and lit my camp stove. I made a pot of coffee and boiled some water for ramen noodles. I am so fucking tired of eating ramen noodles though. The thought of another cup of those things makes my stomach churn. The hot coffee is awesome though on a cold morning. It really warms you up from the inside-out.
I need to head into Waverly today and check my PO Box for mail. I also badly need a shower. I haven’t showered in four days. I will probably ride over to the truck stop and buy a shower, but that is a long, cold ride on my motorcycle. I kept hoping that the weather would warm some thus why I have put off bathing for so long. My hair is so greasy it is driving my crazy. God, I am such a fuckup to be in this mess!
Short Update
Not feeling well at all today so I don’t have much to say. I couldn’t sleep at all last night. Every time I was about to drift off I would hear what sounded like a car door shutting loudly outside in my driveway. I would have to get up to go look out my window, but no one was there. It was disconcerting to say the least.
They only thing I want to do is to crawl back into the bed. I took something for my nerves a few minutes ago and it should hit me pretty soon. Luckily, I only had to work a few hours this morning and am off for the afternoon. Back to the bed I go.
They only thing I want to do is to crawl back into the bed. I took something for my nerves a few minutes ago and it should hit me pretty soon. Luckily, I only had to work a few hours this morning and am off for the afternoon. Back to the bed I go.
Tuesday, September 13, 2005
Random Thoughts for Tuesday
Drunken Phone Calls
Sometime, during the night, my once friend Chad left a drunken message on my answering machine. Luckily, I never woke up or heard the phone ring. It was one of those calls you make after drinking a case of beer or a fifth of liquor. It was almost humorous and I chuckled a few times, especially when he told me how much he loved me. It was one of the most long winded and rambling messages that has ever graced my answering machine. I saved it for future entertainment. I am sure he will wake up sometime today and not remember calling me. He was that drunk. If I was a heartless bastard, I would encode it as an mp3 and upload it for everyone to hear.
Diet Cokes
I am addicted to diet cokes. Part of my working arrangement with my father is that I get to take home a few items of merchandise if I need them without paying as part of my pay. Lately, I have been getting a case of diet cokes every week. I can drink 24 diet cokes in about 5 or 6 days. I am wondering what it may be doing to my teeth. I would never drink the damn things if I had to pay for them with cash, but I am paying for them with my labor and time; funny how the mind works sometimes. To me they seem “free”.
Political Blogs
I have tried really hard to get interested in and knowledgeable about politics. I have tried to read some of the more popular political blogs, but every time my interest wanes in a few minutes to sometimes mere seconds. I see the same shit posted over and over and over. If you are left leaning, you bitch about the right. If you are right leaning, you bitch about the left. A lot of it is really petty stuff and just seems to divide people further and cloud the real issues we face. I hardly ever see those real issues talked about or discussed. Pick your side; pick the political headline of the day; write the same shit everyone else writes about it; hit publish; repeat tomorrow.
Homeless Blogs
My once favored avenue of reading was the many homeless blogs that I had found. Almost all of them are dead now and not being updated. A friend told me on the phone yesterday that “The Homeless Guy” has been appointed to some taskforce to help homeless people. I feel sorry for those homeless folks as they ain’t gonna get any help from that guy. Homeless people don’t need “taskforces” which are just political bullshit. Homeless people need to band together and help themselves such as what Dignity Village is doing.
Sometime, during the night, my once friend Chad left a drunken message on my answering machine. Luckily, I never woke up or heard the phone ring. It was one of those calls you make after drinking a case of beer or a fifth of liquor. It was almost humorous and I chuckled a few times, especially when he told me how much he loved me. It was one of the most long winded and rambling messages that has ever graced my answering machine. I saved it for future entertainment. I am sure he will wake up sometime today and not remember calling me. He was that drunk. If I was a heartless bastard, I would encode it as an mp3 and upload it for everyone to hear.
Diet Cokes
I am addicted to diet cokes. Part of my working arrangement with my father is that I get to take home a few items of merchandise if I need them without paying as part of my pay. Lately, I have been getting a case of diet cokes every week. I can drink 24 diet cokes in about 5 or 6 days. I am wondering what it may be doing to my teeth. I would never drink the damn things if I had to pay for them with cash, but I am paying for them with my labor and time; funny how the mind works sometimes. To me they seem “free”.
Political Blogs
I have tried really hard to get interested in and knowledgeable about politics. I have tried to read some of the more popular political blogs, but every time my interest wanes in a few minutes to sometimes mere seconds. I see the same shit posted over and over and over. If you are left leaning, you bitch about the right. If you are right leaning, you bitch about the left. A lot of it is really petty stuff and just seems to divide people further and cloud the real issues we face. I hardly ever see those real issues talked about or discussed. Pick your side; pick the political headline of the day; write the same shit everyone else writes about it; hit publish; repeat tomorrow.
Homeless Blogs
My once favored avenue of reading was the many homeless blogs that I had found. Almost all of them are dead now and not being updated. A friend told me on the phone yesterday that “The Homeless Guy” has been appointed to some taskforce to help homeless people. I feel sorry for those homeless folks as they ain’t gonna get any help from that guy. Homeless people don’t need “taskforces” which are just political bullshit. Homeless people need to band together and help themselves such as what Dignity Village is doing.
Monday, September 12, 2005
Memoirs of a Lonesome Man
She was sound asleep. I had been reading a book and I rolled over in the bed to check on her. She looked so peaceful. I brushed the hair out of her face and kissed her on the cheek. All was well in the world.
Otis, our Boston terrier, jumped up upon the pine trunk at the foot of our bed making a clamorous noise. He had been outside to relieve himself. You could hear the flap of the dog door as he came back in.
“Shhhhh,” I said as I grabbed him with my arms. “Momma is asleep.”
He snuggled up close to me and scurried under the covers. Rachel stirred.
“What are you two up to?” She asked sleepily as she rolled over slightly.
“Hey, doll,” I said as looked down upon her. “Your two men are fixing to head to bed.”
“Good, you know I have to work early tomorrow,” Rachel said as she rolled back over.
I kissed her again on the cheek and said good night. I reached over and turned off our bedside lamp. I pulled Otis close to me and pulled the covers over us. I laid there in the dark as the ceiling fan went round and round. I felt a hand reach across the bed and fumble for mine. I grasped it tightly and squeezed it.
“I love you,” Rachel said as she grasped my hand.
“I love you too, sweetheart,” I replied. “You go to sleep.”
I often wonder if things could have been different. I wonder if our marriage could have worked. That fumbling hand in the darkness still strikes a strong chord within me. I would love nothing more than to wrap a beautiful woman in my arms now and to go to bed. Times past; times lost; such is life.
Otis, our Boston terrier, jumped up upon the pine trunk at the foot of our bed making a clamorous noise. He had been outside to relieve himself. You could hear the flap of the dog door as he came back in.
“Shhhhh,” I said as I grabbed him with my arms. “Momma is asleep.”
He snuggled up close to me and scurried under the covers. Rachel stirred.
“What are you two up to?” She asked sleepily as she rolled over slightly.
“Hey, doll,” I said as looked down upon her. “Your two men are fixing to head to bed.”
“Good, you know I have to work early tomorrow,” Rachel said as she rolled back over.
I kissed her again on the cheek and said good night. I reached over and turned off our bedside lamp. I pulled Otis close to me and pulled the covers over us. I laid there in the dark as the ceiling fan went round and round. I felt a hand reach across the bed and fumble for mine. I grasped it tightly and squeezed it.
“I love you,” Rachel said as she grasped my hand.
“I love you too, sweetheart,” I replied. “You go to sleep.”
I often wonder if things could have been different. I wonder if our marriage could have worked. That fumbling hand in the darkness still strikes a strong chord within me. I would love nothing more than to wrap a beautiful woman in my arms now and to go to bed. Times past; times lost; such is life.
Preemptive Strike
The phone calls started at 7 AM. The phone would ring three times and then the caller would hang up. They would never leave a message. It was good ole’ Uncle Bob. This had occurred around 4 or 5 times and then I made a preemptive strike. I turned off the ringer and reveled in the peace and quiet.
“If you know who it is then why don’t you just pick up the phone?” You must be thinking.
I am a stubborn son of a bitch when it comes to Uncle Bob. He drives me literally crazy. He only calls if he needs me to do something for him and it is usually trivial shit. I also value my privacy and I have the right to not answer the phone if I do not want to. I don’t care if it is Jesus on the other end trying to sell salvation. If you want me, then leave a fucking message and I will get back in touch with you if it is important.
As predicted, Bob soon drove over. He always does this when he can’t get me to answer the phone. I heard the car door shut and then he tried to open my door. It was locked. He walked around the house and started yelling into my open windows. Bob’s redneck, country twang accented voice rang out into my apartment and sent shivers down my spine.
“Andrew?” Bob hollered. “YOU IN THERE?”
“ANDREW, I KNOW YOUR’E IN THERE. I NEED YOU TO DO SOMETHING,” Bob hollered again.
I acted like I had been asleep.
“What do you want Bob?” I asked through the window.
“Listen, can I come in for a moment?” He asked. “I have been trying to call you all morning.”
I walked to the door and opened it. He stepped inside. I was livid.
“Bob, I know you are an elderly man and I should respect my elders, but the damn phone calls have got to stop, okay?” I said.
My anger had overridden any of my inhibitions.
“Why don’t you just pick up the phone?” Bob asked angrily in reply.
“Bob, listen closely, I have an answering machine!” I exclaimed. “I screen my calls! If it is important I will call you back!”
“I need you to install these here minutes on my cell phone.” Bob replied handing me one of those god awfully expensive pre-pay phone cards from Tracphone.
All of this over a stupid cell phone; I installed the minutes and then handed him back the phone. Bob handed me the little package the card came on.
“Call that there number and see about getting me those double minutes,” Bob said.
“Nope,” I said. “I don’t do phone calls.”
Bob had finally crossed the line. I hate talking on the phone.
“Well, I guess I can go get Linda (his maid) to do it,” Bob said not too pleased with my answer.
“Bob, you have a nice day,” I replied as I ushered him to the door.
He got in his car and left.
Do they sell such a thing as a repellant for obtrusive, aggravating, and un-thoughtful relatives? If so, I want to buy some stock in the company and become a shareholder.
“If you know who it is then why don’t you just pick up the phone?” You must be thinking.
I am a stubborn son of a bitch when it comes to Uncle Bob. He drives me literally crazy. He only calls if he needs me to do something for him and it is usually trivial shit. I also value my privacy and I have the right to not answer the phone if I do not want to. I don’t care if it is Jesus on the other end trying to sell salvation. If you want me, then leave a fucking message and I will get back in touch with you if it is important.
As predicted, Bob soon drove over. He always does this when he can’t get me to answer the phone. I heard the car door shut and then he tried to open my door. It was locked. He walked around the house and started yelling into my open windows. Bob’s redneck, country twang accented voice rang out into my apartment and sent shivers down my spine.
“Andrew?” Bob hollered. “YOU IN THERE?”
“ANDREW, I KNOW YOUR’E IN THERE. I NEED YOU TO DO SOMETHING,” Bob hollered again.
I acted like I had been asleep.
“What do you want Bob?” I asked through the window.
“Listen, can I come in for a moment?” He asked. “I have been trying to call you all morning.”
I walked to the door and opened it. He stepped inside. I was livid.
“Bob, I know you are an elderly man and I should respect my elders, but the damn phone calls have got to stop, okay?” I said.
My anger had overridden any of my inhibitions.
“Why don’t you just pick up the phone?” Bob asked angrily in reply.
“Bob, listen closely, I have an answering machine!” I exclaimed. “I screen my calls! If it is important I will call you back!”
“I need you to install these here minutes on my cell phone.” Bob replied handing me one of those god awfully expensive pre-pay phone cards from Tracphone.
All of this over a stupid cell phone; I installed the minutes and then handed him back the phone. Bob handed me the little package the card came on.
“Call that there number and see about getting me those double minutes,” Bob said.
“Nope,” I said. “I don’t do phone calls.”
Bob had finally crossed the line. I hate talking on the phone.
“Well, I guess I can go get Linda (his maid) to do it,” Bob said not too pleased with my answer.
“Bob, you have a nice day,” I replied as I ushered him to the door.
He got in his car and left.
Do they sell such a thing as a repellant for obtrusive, aggravating, and un-thoughtful relatives? If so, I want to buy some stock in the company and become a shareholder.
Sunday, September 11, 2005
A Grand Meal and a Beautiful Day
I awoke this morning around 5 AM. After drinking a pot of coffee, I put on my hiking clothes and went for a long walk in the predawn dark. Everything was so quiet and all the houses were still unlit. It seemed as if the whole world was still asleep and I was the only awakened soul; this lonely man walking the byways of a slumbering town.
I walked the streets around my neighborhood that were illuminated by the soft glow of streetlights. It was so serene and calming. Times like these are my moments to organize my thoughts and to soothe my soul. Soon, the vibrant stars in the sky dimmed and disappeared. Dawn began to make its appearance as the pitch black sky turned a pale blue. I walked up my driveway to a beautiful view of the rising sun in the east as I concluded my hike.
I came in and fixed breakfast. It was nothing elaborate; just some oatmeal with a liberal dab of grape jelly to sweeten it. I then made up my bed, took a shower, and got in front of this computer to check my daily reads I spent several hours just perusing different websites that engender my interest.
The Phone rang harshly and broke the silence. It was my father.
“I am cooking lunch so don’t eat anything,” He said. “Come on over as soon as you want to.”
“Let me change clothes and I will be right over,” I replied.
I walked over and sat on my parent’s couch reading the latest National Geographic. The smells coming from the kitchen made me salivate and my stomach growled with hunger.
“Time to eat!” Dad called from the kitchen. “Go get your mother out of the bed.”
Dad had fixed a wonderful lunch of roast beef with potatoes, onions, and carrots. The side dishes were a hearty broccoli and rice casserole, English peas, pear salad, and cornbread. We all ate until we were stuffed. I ate two plates full of food myself.
Afterwards, I and my dad sat on the back porch as I smoked my pipe. My pipe smoking habit intrigues him. He often calls me “professor” when he sees me smoking it. It is a good hearted jibe.
“I am so proud of you lately,” He said.
“Why?” I asked after I exhaled another draw of smoke from my pipe.
“You just seem to be doing so well,” He said. “Everyone down at the store and many of my customers have complimented on you the past few weeks. You just seem so healthy and have done a damn fine job lately
“Thanks, I really appreciate that a lot,” I replied. “Hearing it makes a world of difference.”
“Well, I am going to go put my pajamas back on and take a long nap,” Dad said.
“Dad, that sounds like a wonderful idea,” I replied.
“Was my lunch good?” He asked as he stood up to go back inside.
“Dad, you would have made your mother proud,” I replied. “It was delicious.”
I walked on home and took a short nap as well. I then spent the rest of the afternoon tinkering with my blog template and trying to learn some more HTML and CSS coding. In all, it has been a good day.
I walked the streets around my neighborhood that were illuminated by the soft glow of streetlights. It was so serene and calming. Times like these are my moments to organize my thoughts and to soothe my soul. Soon, the vibrant stars in the sky dimmed and disappeared. Dawn began to make its appearance as the pitch black sky turned a pale blue. I walked up my driveway to a beautiful view of the rising sun in the east as I concluded my hike.
I came in and fixed breakfast. It was nothing elaborate; just some oatmeal with a liberal dab of grape jelly to sweeten it. I then made up my bed, took a shower, and got in front of this computer to check my daily reads I spent several hours just perusing different websites that engender my interest.
The Phone rang harshly and broke the silence. It was my father.
“I am cooking lunch so don’t eat anything,” He said. “Come on over as soon as you want to.”
“Let me change clothes and I will be right over,” I replied.
I walked over and sat on my parent’s couch reading the latest National Geographic. The smells coming from the kitchen made me salivate and my stomach growled with hunger.
“Time to eat!” Dad called from the kitchen. “Go get your mother out of the bed.”
Dad had fixed a wonderful lunch of roast beef with potatoes, onions, and carrots. The side dishes were a hearty broccoli and rice casserole, English peas, pear salad, and cornbread. We all ate until we were stuffed. I ate two plates full of food myself.
Afterwards, I and my dad sat on the back porch as I smoked my pipe. My pipe smoking habit intrigues him. He often calls me “professor” when he sees me smoking it. It is a good hearted jibe.
“I am so proud of you lately,” He said.
“Why?” I asked after I exhaled another draw of smoke from my pipe.
“You just seem to be doing so well,” He said. “Everyone down at the store and many of my customers have complimented on you the past few weeks. You just seem so healthy and have done a damn fine job lately
“Thanks, I really appreciate that a lot,” I replied. “Hearing it makes a world of difference.”
“Well, I am going to go put my pajamas back on and take a long nap,” Dad said.
“Dad, that sounds like a wonderful idea,” I replied.
“Was my lunch good?” He asked as he stood up to go back inside.
“Dad, you would have made your mother proud,” I replied. “It was delicious.”
I walked on home and took a short nap as well. I then spent the rest of the afternoon tinkering with my blog template and trying to learn some more HTML and CSS coding. In all, it has been a good day.
Saturday, September 10, 2005
The Realist Begins a Quiet Weekend
I sometimes get this revolutionary/activist bent. I see so much wrong and so much injustice in the way things are currently going, but I finally settle back down and the realist in me comes front and center. There is nothing I can really do in my current situation to make much change other than to explore new ideas and to write about it. I don’t think our current system of corporatist government is going to change in my lifetime or anytime soon. It is far too entrenched and far too powerful.
In these times though I am like a sponge soaking up ideas and knowledge. I have pretty much spent my spare time the past few days searching for essays/articles and reading constantly. When I exhaust one author’s works, I move on to another. This morning, I passed the time reading Noam Chomsky’s writings and pondering over his ideas. I even found that he has a blog and some entries have over 700 hundred comments! Could you imagine trying to keep up with that? I find it hard just keeping up with the sparse few comments I do receive on this meager blog.
Anyways, much of the day today will be spent reading, drinking coffee, and smoking. I have to work two hours, but then will be off until Monday. The only other things I have planned are recording the Auburn Football game and editing out the commercials via my computer. I will then burn it to a DVD so I can watch it on my television and don’t have to sit in front of this computer monitor. I will also have to complete my daily walk. (I like to call it my daily hike as that sounds more adventurous.)
Right, let me get a shower and get ready for work. Deliveries await me. Also, I want to go by the farmer’s market and see if something fancies me for supper tonight, although I have enough vegetable soup left over to feed me for days. I think I shall just freeze it. Good day.
In these times though I am like a sponge soaking up ideas and knowledge. I have pretty much spent my spare time the past few days searching for essays/articles and reading constantly. When I exhaust one author’s works, I move on to another. This morning, I passed the time reading Noam Chomsky’s writings and pondering over his ideas. I even found that he has a blog and some entries have over 700 hundred comments! Could you imagine trying to keep up with that? I find it hard just keeping up with the sparse few comments I do receive on this meager blog.
Anyways, much of the day today will be spent reading, drinking coffee, and smoking. I have to work two hours, but then will be off until Monday. The only other things I have planned are recording the Auburn Football game and editing out the commercials via my computer. I will then burn it to a DVD so I can watch it on my television and don’t have to sit in front of this computer monitor. I will also have to complete my daily walk. (I like to call it my daily hike as that sounds more adventurous.)
Right, let me get a shower and get ready for work. Deliveries await me. Also, I want to go by the farmer’s market and see if something fancies me for supper tonight, although I have enough vegetable soup left over to feed me for days. I think I shall just freeze it. Good day.
Friday, September 09, 2005
The Devil’s Haircut
I had to get my haircut yesterday and it was not a pleasant experience. If you have read any amount of time you may know of my peculiar feelings about personal boundaries. I don’t like strangers getting so close to me and it causes me a great deal of anxiety. Haircuts mean that a stranger has his/her hands in my hair and upon my scalp. I also abhor the small talk you must endure and participate in while getting through these experiences. I guess I must come across as so anti=social. I just can’t help it.
I have been putting it off for weeks and finally had to get a haircut for work. My hair was growing untamable and wild and harder to blow dry with the passing of every day. I called mom and asked her to get me an appointment with her hairdresser. She sighed with relief when I had finally given in as she has wanted me to get my haircut for weeks.
“You will feel better after you get your haircut,” She said. “It will only take a few minutes and it will be over.”
“I know it seems like a simple thing for you,” I replied. “But this will make me so anxious all day that I will be miserable.”
“Let me go down with you,” She said. “Afterwards, we will go get something to eat.”
“Okay,” I replied and hung up the phone.
Mom drove over and we then drove the short drive down to the hair salon in the same shopping center as the Piggly Wiggly. The hairdresser, Rhonda, motioned for me to come and sit in her chair, and she would then get busy cutting my hair. I walked towards the chair with tunnel vision. My palms were sweaty and my forehead was moist from nervous anxiety. I sat down in the chair and closed my eyes as she began the work of taming my wild locks. Within moments, I opened my eyes and it was all over. I looked like a new man in the mirror. I pulled out my wallet and paid Rhonda, and then walked out, relieved to have that over with.
Mom and I then went down to Captain D’s and ate supper. We both quietly sat there as we ate our fish platters.
“I know you are glad to have that over with,” She said as she smiled and broke the silence.
“Yeah,” I replied. “I feel as if a great burden has been lifted off my shoulders.
We finished our meal and made our way back up through the Valley to home. I thanked mom for dinner and for the support. I then went inside and sat in my lounge chair and let out a huge sigh of relief. Another momentous hurdle had been jumped.
I have been putting it off for weeks and finally had to get a haircut for work. My hair was growing untamable and wild and harder to blow dry with the passing of every day. I called mom and asked her to get me an appointment with her hairdresser. She sighed with relief when I had finally given in as she has wanted me to get my haircut for weeks.
“You will feel better after you get your haircut,” She said. “It will only take a few minutes and it will be over.”
“I know it seems like a simple thing for you,” I replied. “But this will make me so anxious all day that I will be miserable.”
“Let me go down with you,” She said. “Afterwards, we will go get something to eat.”
“Okay,” I replied and hung up the phone.
Mom drove over and we then drove the short drive down to the hair salon in the same shopping center as the Piggly Wiggly. The hairdresser, Rhonda, motioned for me to come and sit in her chair, and she would then get busy cutting my hair. I walked towards the chair with tunnel vision. My palms were sweaty and my forehead was moist from nervous anxiety. I sat down in the chair and closed my eyes as she began the work of taming my wild locks. Within moments, I opened my eyes and it was all over. I looked like a new man in the mirror. I pulled out my wallet and paid Rhonda, and then walked out, relieved to have that over with.
Mom and I then went down to Captain D’s and ate supper. We both quietly sat there as we ate our fish platters.
“I know you are glad to have that over with,” She said as she smiled and broke the silence.
“Yeah,” I replied. “I feel as if a great burden has been lifted off my shoulders.
We finished our meal and made our way back up through the Valley to home. I thanked mom for dinner and for the support. I then went inside and sat in my lounge chair and let out a huge sigh of relief. Another momentous hurdle had been jumped.
Country Cookin’
Lately, I have been in the habit of riding my bike down to the farmer’s market. The difference with the flavor and freshness of their vegetables versus the big chains is unmistakable and the price is usually better as well. You haven’t really tasted a tomato until you’ve had one from local fields and just off the vine. Those things make some of the best tomato sandwiches and soup.
Everyday, I like to pick out one or two fresh vegetables and make a meal out of it. This brings me great satisfaction. Yesterday, I cooked some rutabagas and a squash casserole. Rutabagas, if you are not familiar with them, are a root vegetable much like a turnip. When cooked they take on this rich, orange hue like cooked pumpkin. Here in the south we cook them with some salt pork (my grandmother called it fatback) until they get nice and tender and then we mash them. I love to eat them with some homemade vinegary hot-pepper sauce.
This morning, I rode down and bought some beautiful vegetables for vegetable beef soup and some peaches to make a cobbler. (A cobbler is a southern treat that is akin to a pie. It customarily has a latticed pastry crust that is light and flaky.) I picked out some beautiful tomatoes, onions, corn, okra, green beans, and potatoes. I brought them all home and carefully cut them up into bite-size pieces and placed them in my crock pot. I then put in some cubed stew beef that I had defrosted in the refrigerator over night. I topped all of this with water and salt and pepper to taste. I will let this slow cook around 6 to 8 hours until the vegetables and beef are tender and cooked through.
The smells of that soup cooking will drive me crazy all day. I am sure there will be many moments where I go take off the glass top, take a big whiff, and survey how well dinner is coming along. It should be ready when I get off from work. Pull the peach cobbler out of the oven, cook a pan of cornbread, pour a glass of sweet tea, and dinner is served. Bon Appetit!
Everyday, I like to pick out one or two fresh vegetables and make a meal out of it. This brings me great satisfaction. Yesterday, I cooked some rutabagas and a squash casserole. Rutabagas, if you are not familiar with them, are a root vegetable much like a turnip. When cooked they take on this rich, orange hue like cooked pumpkin. Here in the south we cook them with some salt pork (my grandmother called it fatback) until they get nice and tender and then we mash them. I love to eat them with some homemade vinegary hot-pepper sauce.
This morning, I rode down and bought some beautiful vegetables for vegetable beef soup and some peaches to make a cobbler. (A cobbler is a southern treat that is akin to a pie. It customarily has a latticed pastry crust that is light and flaky.) I picked out some beautiful tomatoes, onions, corn, okra, green beans, and potatoes. I brought them all home and carefully cut them up into bite-size pieces and placed them in my crock pot. I then put in some cubed stew beef that I had defrosted in the refrigerator over night. I topped all of this with water and salt and pepper to taste. I will let this slow cook around 6 to 8 hours until the vegetables and beef are tender and cooked through.
The smells of that soup cooking will drive me crazy all day. I am sure there will be many moments where I go take off the glass top, take a big whiff, and survey how well dinner is coming along. It should be ready when I get off from work. Pull the peach cobbler out of the oven, cook a pan of cornbread, pour a glass of sweet tea, and dinner is served. Bon Appetit!
Thursday, September 08, 2005
A Sea of Banality
I wasn’t going to update my blog today, but here is another post. Like a moth drawn to a candle flame, I am back for another day. I had written one post today about my experiences with getting a haircut yesterday. It was called “The Devil’s Haircut”. I didn’t publish it. I censored myself. It sits on my computer’s desktop in a Word file languishing probably never to be edited or read again. Why did I censor myself and what was so bad about the post?
It made me feel dirty and I started to ask myself why. It was the truth. It is exactly what happened yesterday and yet I couldn’t publish it, but I got great satisfaction out of writing it. I felt relieved to get my ideas down on “paper” and to release them. I just couldn’t share it. The thought of publishing it was mortifying.
The post dealt with my mental illness and the phobia I have of going out and doing something as seemingly simple as getting a haircut. I felt I would be ostracized for sharing it. “How can a 33 year old man not just go down to the Barber and get a haircut without it becoming a major crisis?” I thought people would think. It made me feel as if I was acting like a frightened child.
This brought me to thinking about why I would want to hide my illness and my feelings. I am fallible and like most others want to fit in and appear “normal”. I have often learned the hard way in life that to stand out or to reveal too much can be a dangerous thing when dealing with unpredictable others. I have been burned before by my previous blog as family members made an attempt to censor me because they thought I revealed too much. This left a big distaste in my mouth for what I do everyday in updating this blog. Maybe that has a lot to do with my uneasiness with writing and sharing it publicly. Still, it made me think about how much control we give others in our day to day lives and how our behavior can easily be modified by the thoughts and actions of others. This brought me to, “Are we truly free?”
I don’t feel free most of the time. I feel caged and corralled by what others think and expect of me. I want to break free and toss my cares into the wind, but like others, I have been carefully conditioned to think and act a certain way. Everywhere I turn I see this happening; in my relations with my family; in my writings; in what I see touted in our media. It seems that everyone has an opinion on how I should act and live my life and, frighteningly, most of those opinions are the same or very close. I just feel it stifles creativity and originality. That is why I find modern society and popular media so boring and restrictive. Everyone is trying to fit in and be alike.
I crave individualism, creativity, openness, and distinctiveness. I yearn for unconventional ideas and inspiring and non-mainstream thoughts. I guess I will just keep looking, but have found very few in my daily life and on the internet. I feel as if I am caught adrift among a sea of banality; a cast-away amidst throngs of clones who think and act alike.
It made me feel dirty and I started to ask myself why. It was the truth. It is exactly what happened yesterday and yet I couldn’t publish it, but I got great satisfaction out of writing it. I felt relieved to get my ideas down on “paper” and to release them. I just couldn’t share it. The thought of publishing it was mortifying.
The post dealt with my mental illness and the phobia I have of going out and doing something as seemingly simple as getting a haircut. I felt I would be ostracized for sharing it. “How can a 33 year old man not just go down to the Barber and get a haircut without it becoming a major crisis?” I thought people would think. It made me feel as if I was acting like a frightened child.
This brought me to thinking about why I would want to hide my illness and my feelings. I am fallible and like most others want to fit in and appear “normal”. I have often learned the hard way in life that to stand out or to reveal too much can be a dangerous thing when dealing with unpredictable others. I have been burned before by my previous blog as family members made an attempt to censor me because they thought I revealed too much. This left a big distaste in my mouth for what I do everyday in updating this blog. Maybe that has a lot to do with my uneasiness with writing and sharing it publicly. Still, it made me think about how much control we give others in our day to day lives and how our behavior can easily be modified by the thoughts and actions of others. This brought me to, “Are we truly free?”
I don’t feel free most of the time. I feel caged and corralled by what others think and expect of me. I want to break free and toss my cares into the wind, but like others, I have been carefully conditioned to think and act a certain way. Everywhere I turn I see this happening; in my relations with my family; in my writings; in what I see touted in our media. It seems that everyone has an opinion on how I should act and live my life and, frighteningly, most of those opinions are the same or very close. I just feel it stifles creativity and originality. That is why I find modern society and popular media so boring and restrictive. Everyone is trying to fit in and be alike.
I crave individualism, creativity, openness, and distinctiveness. I yearn for unconventional ideas and inspiring and non-mainstream thoughts. I guess I will just keep looking, but have found very few in my daily life and on the internet. I feel as if I am caught adrift among a sea of banality; a cast-away amidst throngs of clones who think and act alike.
Wednesday, September 07, 2005
Our Homegrown Third World
I guess I live life from a unique perspective. I have known great wealth and have also experienced destitute poverty. My family is very wealthy, but by most standards I would be considered poor by my income.
I grew up in your typical upper middle class family. I and my siblings had opportunities that most children never get in a lifetime. My brother and sister both went on to become successful physicians of internal medicine. I tuned out to be this simple man who likes to read and write, and who works quietly in his father’s business in a modest position.
When I was in college the first time, my father bought me a brand new car, a nice apartment, paid my tuition, and gave me two credit cards; one for gas and one for expenses. I lived the charmed life, but there was a dark cloud on the horizon called schizophrenia.
My disease hit with full force in my early twenties, just as the best opportunities were being afforded me. It filled me with fear, apathy, and complacency. Life became a nightmare of delusions and paranoia. I could no longer go to college and I struggled for years with keeping a job
I finally ended up a broken and beaten man just out of a failed marriage and homeless; scorned by my once loving family. My disease had robbed me of everything in my life I had held so dear. All my opportunities had long since gone and had disappeared; pulled out of the grasps of my hands by this devastating disease that I had inherited, but didn’t ask for.
I had thought that my life was over. I spent six months out in the woods in the cold drinking tepid beer everyday and smoking copious amounts of cigarettes. These were my last comforts; my last tenuous holds on sanity. It was a slow crash and took about ten years, but I had finally hit bottom. I lived in the kind of poverty and destitution that you would think would only occur in Third World Nations. Not America, the land of the brave and the free; a nation where millions of poor people flooded in through Ellis Island as immigrants at the turn of the century lured by opportunity and new lives.
Normally, I stay away from main stream media, but I have been reading and catching glimpses of something amazing happening through other blogs. There seems to be this momentum going in the main stream press where the poverty and the “Third Worlds” of our great nation is being talked about and exposed. Katrina was just the catalyst.
I read the proceeding article and have read many others like it lately. Will this catalyst that caused so much damage and destruction bring about some good and change in our modern world? I do hope so. So many people could and can be helped if this momentum I am noticing continues to spread and grow.
I grew up in your typical upper middle class family. I and my siblings had opportunities that most children never get in a lifetime. My brother and sister both went on to become successful physicians of internal medicine. I tuned out to be this simple man who likes to read and write, and who works quietly in his father’s business in a modest position.
When I was in college the first time, my father bought me a brand new car, a nice apartment, paid my tuition, and gave me two credit cards; one for gas and one for expenses. I lived the charmed life, but there was a dark cloud on the horizon called schizophrenia.
My disease hit with full force in my early twenties, just as the best opportunities were being afforded me. It filled me with fear, apathy, and complacency. Life became a nightmare of delusions and paranoia. I could no longer go to college and I struggled for years with keeping a job
I finally ended up a broken and beaten man just out of a failed marriage and homeless; scorned by my once loving family. My disease had robbed me of everything in my life I had held so dear. All my opportunities had long since gone and had disappeared; pulled out of the grasps of my hands by this devastating disease that I had inherited, but didn’t ask for.
I had thought that my life was over. I spent six months out in the woods in the cold drinking tepid beer everyday and smoking copious amounts of cigarettes. These were my last comforts; my last tenuous holds on sanity. It was a slow crash and took about ten years, but I had finally hit bottom. I lived in the kind of poverty and destitution that you would think would only occur in Third World Nations. Not America, the land of the brave and the free; a nation where millions of poor people flooded in through Ellis Island as immigrants at the turn of the century lured by opportunity and new lives.
Normally, I stay away from main stream media, but I have been reading and catching glimpses of something amazing happening through other blogs. There seems to be this momentum going in the main stream press where the poverty and the “Third Worlds” of our great nation is being talked about and exposed. Katrina was just the catalyst.
I read the proceeding article and have read many others like it lately. Will this catalyst that caused so much damage and destruction bring about some good and change in our modern world? I do hope so. So many people could and can be helped if this momentum I am noticing continues to spread and grow.
Tuesday, September 06, 2005
Night Time Serenade
It is almost bedtime for me. Soon, I must shut my windows and sleep for another day. The chorus of insects outside my windows is in full force. Tree frogs in my neighbor’s abandoned pool are calling. I sit here quietly reflecting upon my day as I drink a mug of hot tea. My nicotine habit will soon lure me outside and I will have one last pipe before retiring.
I see the neighbor’s house next to my parent’s is alit as always like a Christmas tree. I don’t know how they afford their electricity bill. I often get up early in the morning to smoke and it seems as if every light is on in their house; even at the earliest hours of the morning. I wonder if they ever sleep. These things mystify me.
Soon, I shall crawl into my bed and wrap myself in the warm covers. The air conditioning will be at full blast and the fan on my floor will be droning. I will get in and pull my spare pillow under my arm and close my eyes. Sleep, such blissful sleep. Maybe my dreams tonight will be filled with positive moments and things that I will still remember in the morning. It is time to go find out.
Good night!
I see the neighbor’s house next to my parent’s is alit as always like a Christmas tree. I don’t know how they afford their electricity bill. I often get up early in the morning to smoke and it seems as if every light is on in their house; even at the earliest hours of the morning. I wonder if they ever sleep. These things mystify me.
Soon, I shall crawl into my bed and wrap myself in the warm covers. The air conditioning will be at full blast and the fan on my floor will be droning. I will get in and pull my spare pillow under my arm and close my eyes. Sleep, such blissful sleep. Maybe my dreams tonight will be filled with positive moments and things that I will still remember in the morning. It is time to go find out.
Good night!
Crass Commercialism
I have been noticing a lot of blog comment spam lately. I was reading Annabel’s blog and noticed she got hit especially hard the past few days. I would click on her comments hoping to read something interesting from one of her blogging friends and would get to read a crass comment about freaking’ laser hair removal or some other stupid shit. Laser hair removal? WTF? I thought the big money making market was in trying to grow more hair not trying to remove it unless there is an upswing of men trying to be like George Constanza from Seinfeld. Ah, I can see it now; the bald look is in. Everybody wants to be like that sexy, bald captain from Star Trek the Next Generation, Captain Picard.
Anyways, I have been getting a lot of comment spam on my radio station blog. For some reason it is much favored over this blog even though that blog gets only a trickle of viewers (most of those hits come from me listening) and this one gets about forty people a day. I did some reading and those comments are auto=generated by a computer program that searches out blogs with anonymous commenting enabled. They must also search for key words that will get them more hits via search engines thus my music blog getting hammered with crap comments lately.
Blogger has a new feature where you can stop this. Just go to the dashboard and read the latest entry by Biz Stone. You have to authenticate your comment by inputting a five to six letter code. I am debating on adding this feature though. It just looks like it would be a pain in the ass to do all the time every time you want to comment. It seems it would deter real readers from commenting as well as comment spam. I guess I will just keep deleting that crap unless they start to flood in and then I will have to give in and relent.
Anyways, I have been getting a lot of comment spam on my radio station blog. For some reason it is much favored over this blog even though that blog gets only a trickle of viewers (most of those hits come from me listening) and this one gets about forty people a day. I did some reading and those comments are auto=generated by a computer program that searches out blogs with anonymous commenting enabled. They must also search for key words that will get them more hits via search engines thus my music blog getting hammered with crap comments lately.
Blogger has a new feature where you can stop this. Just go to the dashboard and read the latest entry by Biz Stone. You have to authenticate your comment by inputting a five to six letter code. I am debating on adding this feature though. It just looks like it would be a pain in the ass to do all the time every time you want to comment. It seems it would deter real readers from commenting as well as comment spam. I guess I will just keep deleting that crap unless they start to flood in and then I will have to give in and relent.
Monday, September 05, 2005
Resting and Reflecting
The older I get and the more experience I have with my illness the more I realize how simple and quiet I must keep my life. I often have the intentions of emulating my grandmother’s and her sister’s ways of life. Those summer days in the country spent with them on her farm are some of the most heartfelt and welcomed memories I possess; those mornings where I awoke to the smell of cooking bacon and brewing coffee; those afternoons spent sitting on the back porch shucking corn from the garden and gossiping; those quiet evenings sitting with my grandmother on her front porch drinking ice cold sweet tea as the sounds of katydids called. All these memories are like precious little moments that I will carry with me until I die and they comfort me.
Today has been one of those quiet days of reflection. I often think back over my life and all that has occurred and I am so glad to be where I am now. I have so much to be thankful for and possess what so many lack. I have a new home that is very affordable and will accommodate me nicely. I have plenty of food and clean water. I have a family who loves me and has become fiercely protective of me and my well being. I have a job that fits within my limitations and affords me a lot of freedom and autonomy. I also have plenty of quiet time to rest, relax, read, and write. All of these things are so important and so very integral to the well being of my mental health.
My medicine only lessens my symptoms and cannot fully cure my disease. It is something that I will always have to live with to some degree or another, but with the above mentioned living conditions my life gets about as good as anyone with paranoid schizophrenia could expect and for that I am grateful.
Today has been one of those quiet days of reflection. I often think back over my life and all that has occurred and I am so glad to be where I am now. I have so much to be thankful for and possess what so many lack. I have a new home that is very affordable and will accommodate me nicely. I have plenty of food and clean water. I have a family who loves me and has become fiercely protective of me and my well being. I have a job that fits within my limitations and affords me a lot of freedom and autonomy. I also have plenty of quiet time to rest, relax, read, and write. All of these things are so important and so very integral to the well being of my mental health.
My medicine only lessens my symptoms and cannot fully cure my disease. It is something that I will always have to live with to some degree or another, but with the above mentioned living conditions my life gets about as good as anyone with paranoid schizophrenia could expect and for that I am grateful.
Sunday, September 04, 2005
Bright Lights in the Dark Night
I was sitting here at my computer in the dark. The neighbor’s dog was barking at some unforeseen threat as the last katydids of summer were calling. I was browsing the blogs I love to read, but weekends are lean times for blogging. A car pulled up in the driveway. The bright lights of its headlights illuminated my dark environ. I heard a car door shut and soon someone knocked upon my back door. I got up and opened the door expecting family or Charlie. It was my ex-wife Rachel.
“Can I come in for a moment?” She asked as she held Otis (our Boston terrier) by his leash.
I opened the door fully and Otis came rushing in as he tore the leash from Rachel’s hands. I sat down on the floor to greet him. I haven’t seen him for months. Rachel took off his leash.
“Hey, little man!” I said as he licked me upon the face as I held him. “It is so good to see you!”
Otis was just ecstatic to see me and I felt as if I had rediscovered a friend long lost.
“Thank you for bringing him by,” I told Rachel. “I have missed him so much.”
“Well, he loves you and you will always be his daddy,” She replied.
“Have a seat,” I said as I stood up and motioned her towards a chair.
I sat down beside Rachel as Otis furiously explored my apartment. He sniffed and searched every crook and cranny.
“It’s been a long time,” Rachel said.
“Yeah, it’s been awhile, hasn’t it?” I replied.
“You look good,” She said. “Your legs look so muscular. Have you been lifting weights?”
“No weights,” I replied. “Just hiking every day.”
“You were always obsessed about that,” Rachel replied.
There was a quiet moment as we both sat there at a loss for words.
“You know I have always loved you,” Rachel said breaking the silence.
“I love you too, Ray,” I said. “We just can’t live together though.”
“Do you ever see us getting back together?” She asked. “I think of you all the time.”
“I don’t know,” I replied. “So much would have to change.”
Rachel started to cry. Tears rolled down upon her cheeks.
“Come here,” I said as I stood up. “Please don’t cry.”
She stood up and I held her in my arms. I wiped the tears off her cheeks.
“I have tried everything,” She said. “eharmony, match.com, yahoo.. I can’t find anybody who wants me. I am just going to be this crazy librarian who is lonely and owns lots of dogs and cats.”
“Shhhhh,” I replied. “You will find somebody. It just takes time.”
“Do you still love me?” She asked.
“Rachel, I will always love you,” I replied. “You will always hold a special place in my heart.”
She held me tightly and sniffled from her stuffy nose and her tears.
“You just stay with me tonight, okay?” I said.
“You don’t mind?” She asked. “I thought you hated me.”
“I don’t hate you,” I replied. “You go get in the bed and get Otis in there with you. You two don’t have to be alone tonight.”
“I still love you so much,” She said as she held me closely.
“I know, doll,” I replied. “Every thing is going to be okay.”
Rachel and Otis are now sound asleep in my little twin bed. I hope we can all fit in it. I know some of my long time blog readers will berate me for doing this, but it will be so nice not to sleep alone tonight. I want to feel a woman next to me even if it is my ex-wife that has caused me so much contention. I may wake up tomorrow morning and regret this though. I am going to cast all cares into the wind for the moment.
“Can I come in for a moment?” She asked as she held Otis (our Boston terrier) by his leash.
I opened the door fully and Otis came rushing in as he tore the leash from Rachel’s hands. I sat down on the floor to greet him. I haven’t seen him for months. Rachel took off his leash.
“Hey, little man!” I said as he licked me upon the face as I held him. “It is so good to see you!”
Otis was just ecstatic to see me and I felt as if I had rediscovered a friend long lost.
“Thank you for bringing him by,” I told Rachel. “I have missed him so much.”
“Well, he loves you and you will always be his daddy,” She replied.
“Have a seat,” I said as I stood up and motioned her towards a chair.
I sat down beside Rachel as Otis furiously explored my apartment. He sniffed and searched every crook and cranny.
“It’s been a long time,” Rachel said.
“Yeah, it’s been awhile, hasn’t it?” I replied.
“You look good,” She said. “Your legs look so muscular. Have you been lifting weights?”
“No weights,” I replied. “Just hiking every day.”
“You were always obsessed about that,” Rachel replied.
There was a quiet moment as we both sat there at a loss for words.
“You know I have always loved you,” Rachel said breaking the silence.
“I love you too, Ray,” I said. “We just can’t live together though.”
“Do you ever see us getting back together?” She asked. “I think of you all the time.”
“I don’t know,” I replied. “So much would have to change.”
Rachel started to cry. Tears rolled down upon her cheeks.
“Come here,” I said as I stood up. “Please don’t cry.”
She stood up and I held her in my arms. I wiped the tears off her cheeks.
“I have tried everything,” She said. “eharmony, match.com, yahoo.. I can’t find anybody who wants me. I am just going to be this crazy librarian who is lonely and owns lots of dogs and cats.”
“Shhhhh,” I replied. “You will find somebody. It just takes time.”
“Do you still love me?” She asked.
“Rachel, I will always love you,” I replied. “You will always hold a special place in my heart.”
She held me tightly and sniffled from her stuffy nose and her tears.
“You just stay with me tonight, okay?” I said.
“You don’t mind?” She asked. “I thought you hated me.”
“I don’t hate you,” I replied. “You go get in the bed and get Otis in there with you. You two don’t have to be alone tonight.”
“I still love you so much,” She said as she held me closely.
“I know, doll,” I replied. “Every thing is going to be okay.”
Rachel and Otis are now sound asleep in my little twin bed. I hope we can all fit in it. I know some of my long time blog readers will berate me for doing this, but it will be so nice not to sleep alone tonight. I want to feel a woman next to me even if it is my ex-wife that has caused me so much contention. I may wake up tomorrow morning and regret this though. I am going to cast all cares into the wind for the moment.
Sunday Morning Bliss
Ah, mornings such as this put a smile on my face and a feeling of wellness in my heart and mind. It is wonderfully cool and the shining globe of the sun is hanging low on the horizon. A chorus of crickets and songbirds are serenading me. Dew is upon the grass and glistening like little jewels in the early morning light.
I sat for the longest time on my porch smoking my pipe and drinking mug after mug of coffee. Mornings like these make me want to don my backpack and set out for adventures far a field. Finally, I had drunk enough coffee to awaken me and came in and fixed some cheese grits and toast for breakfast. What a great start for the day.
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The Good Luck Charm
My father bought me a season ticket for Auburn Football games. Last night was the first game of the season. Last year, I went to every home game with him and was considered the “good luck charm” by him and all his friends who attend with us. Every time I attended we won. I know it is just silly superstition, but my father and friends treat Auburn football as if it were a religion.
Yesterday evening I didn’t feel well. I had worked all morning and didn’t sleep well the night before. The game wasn’t to start until 8:45 PM as it was nationally televised by ESPN. I don’t know if you have ever been to a nationally televised game, but the commercial breaks greatly extend the length of the game and are aggravating. You just sit up in the stands for five minutes or more while nothing on the field occurs. These breaks come at an alarming rate as well. Being televised meant that I probably wouldn’t get home until well after midnight.
Dad called me around yesterday afternoon and I was in the middle of a nap.
“You’re coming to the game tonight, aren’t you?” He asked. “Your sister and brother-in-law are driving down to join us.”
“Dad, I am going to sit this one out,” I replied. “I don’t feel well and am just really tired today.”
“But you are our good luck charm!” He exclaimed.
“It makes me so proud that you want me to go with you, but I am going to have to pass this time,” I said.
“Well, if my family is happy then I am happy,” He replied. “You stay home and get some rest.”
Auburn had the third longest winning streak in the nation before last nights game. Georgia Tech ended that streak and beat us pretty badly. Now I am glad I stayed at home and didn’t get intermixed with those great crowds of people. I bet that was a long, late drive home last night for my father, sister, and brother-in-law. I am sure I will get some good hearted jibes that it was my not attending that caused us to lose. After all, I am supposedly the good luck charm.
I sat for the longest time on my porch smoking my pipe and drinking mug after mug of coffee. Mornings like these make me want to don my backpack and set out for adventures far a field. Finally, I had drunk enough coffee to awaken me and came in and fixed some cheese grits and toast for breakfast. What a great start for the day.
The Good Luck Charm
My father bought me a season ticket for Auburn Football games. Last night was the first game of the season. Last year, I went to every home game with him and was considered the “good luck charm” by him and all his friends who attend with us. Every time I attended we won. I know it is just silly superstition, but my father and friends treat Auburn football as if it were a religion.
Yesterday evening I didn’t feel well. I had worked all morning and didn’t sleep well the night before. The game wasn’t to start until 8:45 PM as it was nationally televised by ESPN. I don’t know if you have ever been to a nationally televised game, but the commercial breaks greatly extend the length of the game and are aggravating. You just sit up in the stands for five minutes or more while nothing on the field occurs. These breaks come at an alarming rate as well. Being televised meant that I probably wouldn’t get home until well after midnight.
Dad called me around yesterday afternoon and I was in the middle of a nap.
“You’re coming to the game tonight, aren’t you?” He asked. “Your sister and brother-in-law are driving down to join us.”
“Dad, I am going to sit this one out,” I replied. “I don’t feel well and am just really tired today.”
“But you are our good luck charm!” He exclaimed.
“It makes me so proud that you want me to go with you, but I am going to have to pass this time,” I said.
“Well, if my family is happy then I am happy,” He replied. “You stay home and get some rest.”
Auburn had the third longest winning streak in the nation before last nights game. Georgia Tech ended that streak and beat us pretty badly. Now I am glad I stayed at home and didn’t get intermixed with those great crowds of people. I bet that was a long, late drive home last night for my father, sister, and brother-in-law. I am sure I will get some good hearted jibes that it was my not attending that caused us to lose. After all, I am supposedly the good luck charm.
Saturday, September 03, 2005
Remembering Past Times and a Love Long Lost
One of my duties when I was married was to cook supper every night after I quit my long haul truck driving job. My wife went to college during the day and also worked second shift at the library where she was employed.
I had just got supper finished as she pulled up into the driveway in her car. Her headlights illuminated the kitchen window as she pulled up. I heard the car door shut and the familiar sounds of her walking up the back steps of our deck. She opened the door and walked inside. Our Boston terrier, Otis, ecstatically greeted her. She carried on about him with great affection as she picked him and kissed him.
“Hey, doll,” She said as she then kissed me upon my lips.
“How was your day?” I asked.
At first, she looked as if she was at a loss for words. She then broke down and started to cry.
“I hate Nadine and she made me miserable today,” She said. “I couldn’t do anything right. I am so glad to be home.”
“Come on. Let’s get something to eat and you will feel better,” I replied.
I had fixed her favorite meal of baked ham and macaroni and cheese. We quietly ate our meal and then I washed up the dishes. Rachel then took a bath and put on her nightgown. I was sitting on the couch reading a magazine when she joined me.
“Hold me,” She said as she sat down.
I put down the magazine and wrapped her up in my arms. She started to cry softly.
“I love you so much,” She said.
“I love you too, sweetheart,” I said as I brushed her hair aside and kissed her on the forehead.
We sat there for the longest time holding each other upon the sofa. I could smell the perfume of her freshly washed hair and her soft skin against mine. I kissed her several more times on her forehead. She held me even more closely. It was getting late.
“Come on,” I said as I stood up and grabbed her hand to pull her up. “Let’s go to bed.”
We got in the bed, scrambled under the covers, and I wrapped my arms around her tightly and pulled her close as I held her. I held her for a long time with Otis at the foot of the bed snoring as dogs do. Soon, she was fast asleep and I let go my grip and rolled over. I laid there for the longest time until sleep overcame me.
I miss those times the most about my failed marriage. I miss Otis. I miss those intimate moments with a woman I loved. I guess I am destined to go through life alone. A lonely bed awaits me and maybe I should head that way. All I have to hold tightly is a pillow, but is does bring me great comfort.
I had just got supper finished as she pulled up into the driveway in her car. Her headlights illuminated the kitchen window as she pulled up. I heard the car door shut and the familiar sounds of her walking up the back steps of our deck. She opened the door and walked inside. Our Boston terrier, Otis, ecstatically greeted her. She carried on about him with great affection as she picked him and kissed him.
“Hey, doll,” She said as she then kissed me upon my lips.
“How was your day?” I asked.
At first, she looked as if she was at a loss for words. She then broke down and started to cry.
“I hate Nadine and she made me miserable today,” She said. “I couldn’t do anything right. I am so glad to be home.”
“Come on. Let’s get something to eat and you will feel better,” I replied.
I had fixed her favorite meal of baked ham and macaroni and cheese. We quietly ate our meal and then I washed up the dishes. Rachel then took a bath and put on her nightgown. I was sitting on the couch reading a magazine when she joined me.
“Hold me,” She said as she sat down.
I put down the magazine and wrapped her up in my arms. She started to cry softly.
“I love you so much,” She said.
“I love you too, sweetheart,” I said as I brushed her hair aside and kissed her on the forehead.
We sat there for the longest time holding each other upon the sofa. I could smell the perfume of her freshly washed hair and her soft skin against mine. I kissed her several more times on her forehead. She held me even more closely. It was getting late.
“Come on,” I said as I stood up and grabbed her hand to pull her up. “Let’s go to bed.”
We got in the bed, scrambled under the covers, and I wrapped my arms around her tightly and pulled her close as I held her. I held her for a long time with Otis at the foot of the bed snoring as dogs do. Soon, she was fast asleep and I let go my grip and rolled over. I laid there for the longest time until sleep overcame me.
I miss those times the most about my failed marriage. I miss Otis. I miss those intimate moments with a woman I loved. I guess I am destined to go through life alone. A lonely bed awaits me and maybe I should head that way. All I have to hold tightly is a pillow, but is does bring me great comfort.
Friday, September 02, 2005
Just Living
Today was just another one of those mundane days. I got up around 6 AM and sat on my porch watching the first light of dawn until sun made an appearance. I sat drinking coffee and smoking my pipe. I then went inside and fixed some bacon, eggs, and toast. I also ate a banana and drank a glass of milk then took my fish oil and vitamins.
The nights have been so wonderfully cool and it is a good sign that fall is on the way. I no longer have to use my air-conditioning any more lately. It got down to 62 degrees last night and was chilly when I woke up this morning. I had left all my expansive windows open.
Around lunch, mom called and told me that Ella had finished cooking lunch. My parents have a full time maid who cooks lunch everyday, cleans the house, and does laundry. Due to mom’s mental illness she cannot cook or clean so dad hired Ella to make sure mom gets one good meal a day and the house stays immaculate.
Ella cooks traditional southern style food. I have grown accustomed to everyday walking over to my parent’s house to get a good, home-cooked meal. Ella always cooks for an army. Today’s meal was ham steaks, candied sweet potatoes, turnip greens w/ hamhocks, fried okra, potato salad, and corn bread. I ate my lunch and then went in to mom’s bedroom to sit and talk awhile.
Mom was wrapped up in the covers of her bed and her cat, muffin, was atop of her. She basically just lies in the bed all day and reads books all night. She says her schedule is mixed up. I talked to her for awhile and then had to head home to get ready for work.
I think this job is going to work out for me. So far things have gone really well and I have done well so far. I am not really doing this for the money, but mainly to help my father. It feels good to know that he now trusts me so much and I am getting to help in the prosperity of his business. Today was mainly just delivering medications to all my father’s homebound customers that are too elderly to drive and get out. It only took around 3 hours and I got paid $30 bucks to boot. That money is nice and all if it is going into an envelope and hidden to help me get up the money to buy a new computer. My current computer is aging and is now 2 years old.
Well, anyways, I hope you all are having a good day. Thanks for reading and the comments as always. I am now going to settle down the for evening and go curl up into my bed with a good book until I fall asleep.
The nights have been so wonderfully cool and it is a good sign that fall is on the way. I no longer have to use my air-conditioning any more lately. It got down to 62 degrees last night and was chilly when I woke up this morning. I had left all my expansive windows open.
Around lunch, mom called and told me that Ella had finished cooking lunch. My parents have a full time maid who cooks lunch everyday, cleans the house, and does laundry. Due to mom’s mental illness she cannot cook or clean so dad hired Ella to make sure mom gets one good meal a day and the house stays immaculate.
Ella cooks traditional southern style food. I have grown accustomed to everyday walking over to my parent’s house to get a good, home-cooked meal. Ella always cooks for an army. Today’s meal was ham steaks, candied sweet potatoes, turnip greens w/ hamhocks, fried okra, potato salad, and corn bread. I ate my lunch and then went in to mom’s bedroom to sit and talk awhile.
Mom was wrapped up in the covers of her bed and her cat, muffin, was atop of her. She basically just lies in the bed all day and reads books all night. She says her schedule is mixed up. I talked to her for awhile and then had to head home to get ready for work.
I think this job is going to work out for me. So far things have gone really well and I have done well so far. I am not really doing this for the money, but mainly to help my father. It feels good to know that he now trusts me so much and I am getting to help in the prosperity of his business. Today was mainly just delivering medications to all my father’s homebound customers that are too elderly to drive and get out. It only took around 3 hours and I got paid $30 bucks to boot. That money is nice and all if it is going into an envelope and hidden to help me get up the money to buy a new computer. My current computer is aging and is now 2 years old.
Well, anyways, I hope you all are having a good day. Thanks for reading and the comments as always. I am now going to settle down the for evening and go curl up into my bed with a good book until I fall asleep.
Slop on New Orleans
I had walked down to the Pig with the intentions of buying chocolate milk and some crackers. I was mainly interested in just getting out of the house for thirty minutes or so. I made my purchase and sat down outside on the bench that harbored Slop as I drank my milk and ate my crackers. I tried to make small talk, but it grew more elaborate.
“Slop, what do you think about what is happening down there in New Orleans?” I asked.
“If dat be a bunch of rich, white people then they would have gotten help days ago,” Slop replied. “Those folks ain’t nothin’ but a poor bunch of niggas and no one wants to help them. The rich, white folks got out before dat storm.”
I sat quietly as I mulled over what Slop said and ate my crackers. It is interesting to get the perspective of a black man.
“Slop, what would you do in such a situation?” I asked.
“Hell, I don’t be knowin’” Slop said. “I do know dat niggas been through hell and we will do anything to survive.”
“Would the same thing happen here?” I asked.
“You put a hungry man in front of a store like dis full of food and da shit is gonna hit da fan,” Slop said. “Dat nigga is gonna break the glass and get him somethin’ to eat. We ain’t stupid.”
The fact of racial disparity hit home with me. We still do live in a segregated society. The difference is that it has less to do with the color of our skin or our culture, but more to do with our black citizen’s lack of financial resources. Many blacks are poor and live a tenuous line between solvency and bankruptcy. That makes them more susceptible to disasters such as Hurricane Katrina. If you have watched any of the media coverage then you will see that the majority of displaced persons in New Orleans are poor minorities. I only saw a handful of white people in the coverage I watched today.
“Slop, what do you think about what is happening down there in New Orleans?” I asked.
“If dat be a bunch of rich, white people then they would have gotten help days ago,” Slop replied. “Those folks ain’t nothin’ but a poor bunch of niggas and no one wants to help them. The rich, white folks got out before dat storm.”
I sat quietly as I mulled over what Slop said and ate my crackers. It is interesting to get the perspective of a black man.
“Slop, what would you do in such a situation?” I asked.
“Hell, I don’t be knowin’” Slop said. “I do know dat niggas been through hell and we will do anything to survive.”
“Would the same thing happen here?” I asked.
“You put a hungry man in front of a store like dis full of food and da shit is gonna hit da fan,” Slop said. “Dat nigga is gonna break the glass and get him somethin’ to eat. We ain’t stupid.”
The fact of racial disparity hit home with me. We still do live in a segregated society. The difference is that it has less to do with the color of our skin or our culture, but more to do with our black citizen’s lack of financial resources. Many blacks are poor and live a tenuous line between solvency and bankruptcy. That makes them more susceptible to disasters such as Hurricane Katrina. If you have watched any of the media coverage then you will see that the majority of displaced persons in New Orleans are poor minorities. I only saw a handful of white people in the coverage I watched today.
Thursday, September 01, 2005
My First Day of Work
Wouldn’t you know that on my first day of work there would be complications; so much for an easy transition back into the realm of the employed. I think I handled it with aplomb though.
I had to deliver a lift chair to a nursing home. My father had warned me that this customer of twenty years was finicky and hard to please. I just laughed it off thinking I could handle any situation.
I loaded up the delivery van and headed out. Neal accompanied me. We soon arrived at Savannah Court nursing home and I backed up the van to the door we needed to unload at. A young and pretty black lady stepped outside and told us where to deliver the chair. We both grabbed the heavy chair with our hands and lugged it to the elderly lady’s room. These lift chairs have a heavy electric motor inside them and are burdensome as hell.
We sat the chair down in her room after moving her sofa over a few inches. I wanted to make sure it reclined and could also lift her up. It turned out after all that work she was not pleased with what we delivered.
“That is not the color I ordered,” She replied.
The chair was a kind of mauve and she had apparently ordered brown. It fit in with her current furniture nicely I thought. Neal agreed.
“I just don’t think I can be happy with that color,” She said.
“Ma’am, would you like us to take the chair back?” I asked.
“Oh, I don’t know,” She said. “My cousin is coming tonight and maybe I will ask her opinion.”
“Well, you can use this chair in the mean time and call Angie (my father’s co-pharmacist) in the morning,” I replied. “She can sort out this matter with you.”
I was really unsure of what to do and just winged it.
“We will be glad to order you a new one and swap this one out,” I further replied.
“Maybe I should call my power of attorney and she what she thinks,” She said.
“You do what you think is best, ma’am,” I replied.
“I once ordered a mattress and it was too soft,” She said. “It hurt my back and I made them come back to pick it up to return it.”
She went on and on about her unpleasant mattress buying experience and I did my best to appease her. I assured her that we would go to any lengths to make her a satisfied customer. Finally, I had to leave as I had other deliveries to do.
“Ma’am, you call us if you need anything else,” I said.
By this time, she was already fully inclined in the chair and watching television. She bid us goodnight. Apparently, she liked the function of chair pretty well. I guess there are some people you can never fully please and my father had warned me about this customer.
I had to deliver a lift chair to a nursing home. My father had warned me that this customer of twenty years was finicky and hard to please. I just laughed it off thinking I could handle any situation.
I loaded up the delivery van and headed out. Neal accompanied me. We soon arrived at Savannah Court nursing home and I backed up the van to the door we needed to unload at. A young and pretty black lady stepped outside and told us where to deliver the chair. We both grabbed the heavy chair with our hands and lugged it to the elderly lady’s room. These lift chairs have a heavy electric motor inside them and are burdensome as hell.
We sat the chair down in her room after moving her sofa over a few inches. I wanted to make sure it reclined and could also lift her up. It turned out after all that work she was not pleased with what we delivered.
“That is not the color I ordered,” She replied.
The chair was a kind of mauve and she had apparently ordered brown. It fit in with her current furniture nicely I thought. Neal agreed.
“I just don’t think I can be happy with that color,” She said.
“Ma’am, would you like us to take the chair back?” I asked.
“Oh, I don’t know,” She said. “My cousin is coming tonight and maybe I will ask her opinion.”
“Well, you can use this chair in the mean time and call Angie (my father’s co-pharmacist) in the morning,” I replied. “She can sort out this matter with you.”
I was really unsure of what to do and just winged it.
“We will be glad to order you a new one and swap this one out,” I further replied.
“Maybe I should call my power of attorney and she what she thinks,” She said.
“You do what you think is best, ma’am,” I replied.
“I once ordered a mattress and it was too soft,” She said. “It hurt my back and I made them come back to pick it up to return it.”
She went on and on about her unpleasant mattress buying experience and I did my best to appease her. I assured her that we would go to any lengths to make her a satisfied customer. Finally, I had to leave as I had other deliveries to do.
“Ma’am, you call us if you need anything else,” I said.
By this time, she was already fully inclined in the chair and watching television. She bid us goodnight. Apparently, she liked the function of chair pretty well. I guess there are some people you can never fully please and my father had warned me about this customer.
Clueless
I feel so clueless. I have been completely oblivious to what has been happening in New Orleans. I haven’t watched the television since Monday, rarely listen to the radio, and I don’t visit news websites like www.cnn.com. As I have always stated about my media fast that if something was important it would find me and I don’t have to go out and seek it. Today, it did.
My brother and sister both lived in New Orleans for five years and attended Tulane University. I have been there many times during their college years and it was an interesting city. I am just glad they are not caught in that mess and are safely in other parts of the country.
After finding this out, I hit some of the blogs I enjoy, but have not read recently. I knew they would have an interesting take on what is going on in New Orleans contrary to popular media. Here is one excerpt from Ran Prier’s Web Log that I thought was interesting. I am not necessarily an alarmist about such matters, but thought it was food for thought.
September 1. A reader asks:
My brother and sister both lived in New Orleans for five years and attended Tulane University. I have been there many times during their college years and it was an interesting city. I am just glad they are not caught in that mess and are safely in other parts of the country.
After finding this out, I hit some of the blogs I enjoy, but have not read recently. I knew they would have an interesting take on what is going on in New Orleans contrary to popular media. Here is one excerpt from Ran Prier’s Web Log that I thought was interesting. I am not necessarily an alarmist about such matters, but thought it was food for thought.
September 1. A reader asks:
“Do you think we've been conditioned, via our mass media, to respond with panic now? Movies like Oil Storm, all this focus on "looters" and "lawlessness," almost like we're being told this is how to behave? I could almost imagine a kind of mass hysteria sweeping through parts of the nation which are really not in any danger.”
The Empire wants to dominate. It doesn't want us running wild in the streets, because that's unpredictable. It's showing looters not to make us steal, but to make us afraid of looters, so we happily give more power to authorities. The worst thing that could happen from the Empire's perspective, and the best thing from our perspective, is for the media to show people getting along, being helpful, working effectively, without any police or soldiers or bureaucrats around. Conversely, the best thing for the rulers is for us to see horrific violence in the absence of central control.
You will not see any of that on this site. There's a fucking war on. The war is between bottom-up life and top-down control. It's true, sometimes bad things happen because control breaks down. But anyone who focuses on that, and not on the much worse effects of the domination system itself, is a propagandist for that system.
New Vision
Have you ever been to your local pool and opened your eyes underwater? Isn’t it blurry? That is my vision without my contacts or glasses. Lately, my vision has degraded and I could not see with my glasses. I cannot wear my hard contact lenses anymore as they are painful and no longer fit my eyes. It has grown increasingly hard to read this computer screen. My relatives have been noticing that I squint all the time to try and correct my vision.
My mother also has schizophrenia and is obsessive/compulsive. She has been bugging me for weeks obsessively about going to the eye doctor. She has been a woman obsessed.
I hate doctors and will not go unless I absolutely must have to. My poor vision finally broke my will to fight it any longer. Mom made an appointment and today was the day. Isn’t that sad that I am 33 years old and still relying upon my mother for such things? Bless her soul. I wouldn’t know what I would do without her.
I am particular about my personal boundaries and the eye doctor getting so close to me to observe my eyes made me supremely uncomfortable. I could smell his breath as he administered a barrage of tests upon my eyes. I felt as if I would cast his equipment aside and run out of the room I felt so uncomfortable. Fortunately, I held it together long enough without causing any embarrassing moments. He got his results.
The doctor’s words were that I have “nipples” upon my corneas; an apparent deformity that is inherited. All I could think of was real women’s breasts as he said this. So sue me. I am a guy. This causes my hard contact lenses to not seat properly upon my eyes thus the pain. It feels as if I have a grain of sand in my eyes as I wear them.
He scribbled furiously upon his papers and said that my new contacts should alleviate the problem. He had adjusted the conformity of the lenses to seat upon my corneas. Hopefully, in a few days I will get a call that my new vision has arrived. I don’t want to think about how much this is going to cost though. I am sure it will be hundreds of dollars, but what price would you pay for good vision?
My mother also has schizophrenia and is obsessive/compulsive. She has been bugging me for weeks obsessively about going to the eye doctor. She has been a woman obsessed.
I hate doctors and will not go unless I absolutely must have to. My poor vision finally broke my will to fight it any longer. Mom made an appointment and today was the day. Isn’t that sad that I am 33 years old and still relying upon my mother for such things? Bless her soul. I wouldn’t know what I would do without her.
I am particular about my personal boundaries and the eye doctor getting so close to me to observe my eyes made me supremely uncomfortable. I could smell his breath as he administered a barrage of tests upon my eyes. I felt as if I would cast his equipment aside and run out of the room I felt so uncomfortable. Fortunately, I held it together long enough without causing any embarrassing moments. He got his results.
The doctor’s words were that I have “nipples” upon my corneas; an apparent deformity that is inherited. All I could think of was real women’s breasts as he said this. So sue me. I am a guy. This causes my hard contact lenses to not seat properly upon my eyes thus the pain. It feels as if I have a grain of sand in my eyes as I wear them.
He scribbled furiously upon his papers and said that my new contacts should alleviate the problem. He had adjusted the conformity of the lenses to seat upon my corneas. Hopefully, in a few days I will get a call that my new vision has arrived. I don’t want to think about how much this is going to cost though. I am sure it will be hundreds of dollars, but what price would you pay for good vision?
Wednesday, August 31, 2005
The Blogger Blues
I sometimes get aggravated with my blog as I get the notion that it is an addiction of mine. I get these hankerings to just walk away and never post again but I always find myself writing yet another post. I only have a hand full of people reading so why should it matter? Do I enjoy it? I enjoy when something interesting in my life happens and I get to chronicle it with words and share it. Writing is not a burden to me. I sit down at the computer and in a matter of minutes a post for my blog is born. It doesn’t feel like work. If it felt like work then I assure you this blog would be idle and not updated everyday.
Then why do I find something distasteful about it? Is it the voyeurism I think it promotes in readers? Is it the egoism that is required by the author to think that what you have to write is really meaningful and worth a shit? I don’t know. I struggle with this from time to time.
I do know that there are few blogs I read that I immensely enjoy and they are not well read authors. Two blogs I just visited left me thinking some pretty weighty thoughts and fascinated me. I will probably mull over the ideas they presented all day in deep thought. It is these times that I want to sit in front of this computer and write inspired by the works of others. I am not friends with these people and they probably don’t even know I exist except for a number being displayed on the site counter, but I feel a tangible link to the authors. I have grown to be fascinated with their lives and the ideas and thoughts they expound. Maybe that is what brings me back to blog everyday; the hope that maybe a few people will find enjoyable something that I enjoy producing
Maybe I should think of blogging as a hobby. Hobbies are something that are healthy, enjoyable, and help us pass idle time. I love Model Railroading and would probably have a sizable miniature rail empire if my income wasn’t so limited. I enjoy that hobby vicariously through the pages of Model Railroader Magazine that I receive every month. I get to experience it through the work and art of others. I guess I will try to think of blogging as a hobby from now on to try and quell my uneasiness about it.
Then why do I find something distasteful about it? Is it the voyeurism I think it promotes in readers? Is it the egoism that is required by the author to think that what you have to write is really meaningful and worth a shit? I don’t know. I struggle with this from time to time.
I do know that there are few blogs I read that I immensely enjoy and they are not well read authors. Two blogs I just visited left me thinking some pretty weighty thoughts and fascinated me. I will probably mull over the ideas they presented all day in deep thought. It is these times that I want to sit in front of this computer and write inspired by the works of others. I am not friends with these people and they probably don’t even know I exist except for a number being displayed on the site counter, but I feel a tangible link to the authors. I have grown to be fascinated with their lives and the ideas and thoughts they expound. Maybe that is what brings me back to blog everyday; the hope that maybe a few people will find enjoyable something that I enjoy producing
Maybe I should think of blogging as a hobby. Hobbies are something that are healthy, enjoyable, and help us pass idle time. I love Model Railroading and would probably have a sizable miniature rail empire if my income wasn’t so limited. I enjoy that hobby vicariously through the pages of Model Railroader Magazine that I receive every month. I get to experience it through the work and art of others. I guess I will try to think of blogging as a hobby from now on to try and quell my uneasiness about it.
Tuesday, August 30, 2005
Wheeler and Dealer
I was just putting the finishing touches upon my yard after mowing the lawn. I was using my weed-eater to trim around my driveway. George pulled up in his 1981 Dodge Diplomat. It took me completely by surprise.
“Son of a bitch,” I muttered under my breath as I turned my weed-eater off. I was not expecting this at all. George never comes over to my house.
Lately, George has had an infatuation with my car. I made the mistake of telling him that it was gift. He thinks that since I got it for free then I would be willing to sell it for a small amount of cash. That was what today’s visit was about.
“Wazzup, my brotha!” George said as he got out of the car.
“Hey, George,” I replied suspiciously.
“Dey got yo white ass working hard, I see,” George said commenting on my freshly cut lawn and the weed-eater sitting on the ground next to me.
There was a young, black lady sitting in the passenger’s seat of George’s car. I had never seen her before.
“Who’s that?” I said to George motioning to the lady.
“Oh, don’t be mindin’ her,” George said. “Dis ain’t none of her business.”
“What do you want, man?” I asked cautiously. I don’t particularly like having George at my house for some reason.
George pulled a thick envelope out of his front pocket and handed it to me.
“Go ahead and count it, brotha,” George said.
I opened the envelope and it was filled with a wad of $20 dollar bills. It was quite a substantial amount.
“George, where did you get this kind of money?” I asked.
“It be a thousand dollars,” George said. “Ole George has connections.”
“What does this have to do with me?” I asked.
“I want to buy dat car,” He said as he pointed to my Honda.
I laughed.
“George, my car is worth ten times this much,” I replied as I handed him back the envelope.
“So, you ain’t gonna sell it to me then?” George asked.
“George,” I said with the utmost sincerity as I put my hand on his shoulder. “You come back this afternoon with $10,000 dollars and I will sign the title over to you on this spot. The car will be yours.”
“Now, goddamn, you know I can’t come up with dat kind of money!” George exclaimed.
“George, that is my final offer,” I replied amused
“I see how ya gonna be,” George said. “Damn, tight-ass, white cracka.”
“Now, George, I thought me and you were brothers,” I replied as I smiled.
George was not happy with my offer. I didn’t have any intention of selling my car anyways and I knew George couldn’t get up that kind of cash. We spoke for a few more moments and then he got in his car and left. I smiled to myself as I put up my lawn tools and walked on inside. That George sure can get some crazy ideas up his butt sometimes. Selling my car for a thousand dollars; I am not that big of a fool. You have to give him an A for audacity though.
“Son of a bitch,” I muttered under my breath as I turned my weed-eater off. I was not expecting this at all. George never comes over to my house.
Lately, George has had an infatuation with my car. I made the mistake of telling him that it was gift. He thinks that since I got it for free then I would be willing to sell it for a small amount of cash. That was what today’s visit was about.
“Wazzup, my brotha!” George said as he got out of the car.
“Hey, George,” I replied suspiciously.
“Dey got yo white ass working hard, I see,” George said commenting on my freshly cut lawn and the weed-eater sitting on the ground next to me.
There was a young, black lady sitting in the passenger’s seat of George’s car. I had never seen her before.
“Who’s that?” I said to George motioning to the lady.
“Oh, don’t be mindin’ her,” George said. “Dis ain’t none of her business.”
“What do you want, man?” I asked cautiously. I don’t particularly like having George at my house for some reason.
George pulled a thick envelope out of his front pocket and handed it to me.
“Go ahead and count it, brotha,” George said.
I opened the envelope and it was filled with a wad of $20 dollar bills. It was quite a substantial amount.
“George, where did you get this kind of money?” I asked.
“It be a thousand dollars,” George said. “Ole George has connections.”
“What does this have to do with me?” I asked.
“I want to buy dat car,” He said as he pointed to my Honda.
I laughed.
“George, my car is worth ten times this much,” I replied as I handed him back the envelope.
“So, you ain’t gonna sell it to me then?” George asked.
“George,” I said with the utmost sincerity as I put my hand on his shoulder. “You come back this afternoon with $10,000 dollars and I will sign the title over to you on this spot. The car will be yours.”
“Now, goddamn, you know I can’t come up with dat kind of money!” George exclaimed.
“George, that is my final offer,” I replied amused
“I see how ya gonna be,” George said. “Damn, tight-ass, white cracka.”
“Now, George, I thought me and you were brothers,” I replied as I smiled.
George was not happy with my offer. I didn’t have any intention of selling my car anyways and I knew George couldn’t get up that kind of cash. We spoke for a few more moments and then he got in his car and left. I smiled to myself as I put up my lawn tools and walked on inside. That George sure can get some crazy ideas up his butt sometimes. Selling my car for a thousand dollars; I am not that big of a fool. You have to give him an A for audacity though.
A Regular Handyman
I hate mowing my yard. I have a huge yard full of green grass that grows endlessly. It is a multi-hour affair that leaves me exhausted. I usually cut it with a push mower. Charlie has had an old riding lawn mower under my house in storage for years. I called him on his cell phone and he told me if I could get it running again I could use it all I want.
Getting this riding mower running again was a major accomplishment. The tires were flat, the oil needed changing, the carburetor and air filter needed cleaning, and the battery was long dead. I ended up spending $75 dollars just getting the damned thing in running shape again. I changed the oil and spark plug. I cleaned the carburetor and put fresh gas in the tank. I filled the tires up with air. I then went down to the auto parts store and exchanged the old battery for a new one which was my most costly expense.
I crossed my fingers after installing the battery hoping the engine would fire to life as I turned the key. It cranked and cranked and the new battery soon grew weaker and weaker. Finally, with one last turn of the key, the engine roared to life. I did a little victory dance of joy. A job that normally takes me four to five hours only took one on the riding mower. I got to sit on my lazy ass as I did circles around my house cutting the grass. Oh, the little joys and pleasures that are bestowed upon us in life!
George also came over to the house today and it was interesting. I have made it pretty clear to him that I value my privacy and don’t like visitors. He wanted something and just couldn’t stay away. I will try to write that story up this evening when I get some spare time. Now, I must get a shower and then get supper started. I am starving.
Getting this riding mower running again was a major accomplishment. The tires were flat, the oil needed changing, the carburetor and air filter needed cleaning, and the battery was long dead. I ended up spending $75 dollars just getting the damned thing in running shape again. I changed the oil and spark plug. I cleaned the carburetor and put fresh gas in the tank. I filled the tires up with air. I then went down to the auto parts store and exchanged the old battery for a new one which was my most costly expense.
I crossed my fingers after installing the battery hoping the engine would fire to life as I turned the key. It cranked and cranked and the new battery soon grew weaker and weaker. Finally, with one last turn of the key, the engine roared to life. I did a little victory dance of joy. A job that normally takes me four to five hours only took one on the riding mower. I got to sit on my lazy ass as I did circles around my house cutting the grass. Oh, the little joys and pleasures that are bestowed upon us in life!
George also came over to the house today and it was interesting. I have made it pretty clear to him that I value my privacy and don’t like visitors. He wanted something and just couldn’t stay away. I will try to write that story up this evening when I get some spare time. Now, I must get a shower and then get supper started. I am starving.
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